Sometimes You Need To Light the Fire Within You

Sometimes you need to LIGHT THE FIRE WITHIN YOU and set boundaries when you're giving everything and some are not returning doing their part. They will say you changed, they will say you are different, they will say all kinds of things because you're not feeding them anymore, you're not enabling them anymore, you're not helping with their addiction ... you're setting a boundary for them to stand on their own and do their part.

Be strong dear ones, put their comments in a dark bucket and leave them there, it's time for these people to stand on their own and it's time for us to stop abusing ourselves and start taking care of ourselves when they're not reciprocating, or doing their part.

You don't have to be mean or cruel, you can be nice as pie. It may not be the easiest thing to do but it is something that should be on top of our list because WE matter too! And we know deep in our hearts we really don't want to be taken advantage of for the rest of our lives. Therefore the ball is in our court, will we call on the fire to help us say the words to stop it?

Don't let yourself down, you're important, if you don't change, nothing outside of you will change, dear ones. 💕