was the name I created
to represent a beauty we all have in
I hoped when these two words were seen together it would be
a visual reminder of Love & Unity ...
and I chose to use it as my
counseling and teaching in many chat rooms.
UnityLove was created to represent the grandness
connect with within his or her self,
and opened the door for many to embrace
a beautiful relationship with
& Love for all creates a path beyond talk
into the expression of the heart.
Choosing it, opens us to some of the grandest feelings
and expressions through our human forms.
About me, the how and
the why ...
I would like to
share how my life helped awaken me ...
Many call me Unity, my given name
is Debra ...
I was born in 1954 to a family that
was greatly separated by belief systems & religion.
My father was Hebrew and followed the Jewish belief.
My mother was Syrian & she followed a belief that was very similar to Roman Catholic.
Not only did both my parents hold completely opposite views on life ...
but the countries that was their heritage were constantly at war.
What I saw in so many minds was separation.
What I felt in many hearts was
It wasn't until I was much older that I realized that I was empath
and could feel others heartfelt feelings.
From the eyes of a child ...
I stood in total confusion as to which parent's beliefs and religion
to choose and believe in
which belief I considered choosing,
those who did not believe in that way said I would
My father, being Jewish said Jesus Christ was a not the Messiah.
My mother's being Catholic warned
that if I didn't believe in Jesus Christ as the Messiah,
that no matter how much I loved God ... it would not be enough.
As much as I tried to figure it out
I didn't truly know which of their belief's held the
I felt lost and somehow unloved by God
wasn't sure in my beliefs like
I felt I wasn't going to heaven because I couldn't make a choice ...
I felt God would be angry and unhappy with me
if I made the wrong choice.
Can you imagine how scary life was for a child
unsure of God's Love?
so at the
age of nineteen
after being told very boldly once again that
I was positively going to hell no matter how much I Loved God.
I began an in-depth journey to understand the truth
about God, Life &
I wanted to know for myself which of my parents religions held the truth.
And I desperately wanted to see if I could really get to know
and be Loved
by this God
that caused so much fear and separation.
(what I was shown is ... it is we who separate ourselves in so many ways)
was a very
profound journey for me and what I found
was true enlightenment.
It took my heart
beyond what many of us have experienced and were taught to feel.
I was blessed with a life that led me into taking
a long hard look at separation.
I was also blessed with
the ability to feel the hurt in others
sadness they felt as they were subjected to separation.
I wanted to give them comfort.
I wanted to help them feel good.
And so I began questioning -
I began questioning everything
In my heart I know this was the reason for my diverse childhood.
In some Divine way it was the reason my parents came together to have a
had come for a different view of Love to be embraced by the world -
truer way of Loving
than many of us ever imagined.
A way of Loving that didn't leave
ourselves or others out..
And the beauty in it all ...
we could know very easily where true Divine Love was not,
by simply noticing wherever separation existed or showed up.
After searching the
Bible page by page for many years
and then exploring the depths of
many other beliefs ...
a common thread was shown,
and how Divine it truly was, for it was
interwoven in them all.
This common thread was a
Grand Love ... a Divine Love ... an Unconditional Love,
Its only Law was one of
This Grand Love when fully understood,
includes everyone and separates no one
from one another
for any reason.
did not make someone
higher & another lower because of
did not make someone more
& another less for how could that be
The Grandest Love of All
say there was only one way to find your Divinity.
lovingly whispers ...
"There are infinite ways to find Me for I Am in
Why would you limit My Love so?"
And there are infinite ways to find this beautiful
Love (God Source of All Things)
in you and each and everyone of us."
This is the beautiful Love
that awaits each one of us
and it uses no judgment of any kind.
God Source of All Things/Divine
Unconditional Love would never condemn a child
because of the family he or she was born into
or the because of different beliefs that
or because of any belief chosen ... ever. That is not True Love in any way ...
but many of mankind's mis-interpretations of God
and what Love was,
This is what opened my eyes,
it opened my heart and my mind together ... it awakened me.
I came to realize that we were not shown
"how to feel what Divine Unconditional Love
This began my process of going beyond what anyone taught about God, Love
and it opened my heart to seeing God/Divine Love for what God Truly Is
always meant to be.
What I found was Divine Unconditional Love is a Profound Love,
and We each are an Individual Expression of It
... each in Our Own Unique Way.
So many beliefs have made
and "us little" with all their
and many of these mis-interpretations have been keeping us apart from one another
and keeping us from expressing the True Love we have deep within our hearts.
Feeling The Grandest Love of All is not as hard as you think ...
it is as close as a choice away.
And then I
Continued to Pray, Meditate, Search & Research
to Find the Truth about Life and Us.
I was taken on many amazing journeys by Spirit so I could feel the truth
What I can now share with you is an in-creditable understanding into why
you are experiencing what you are.
I can show you how to recognize and get in touch
with what you are being shown ...
and explain what you need to do or change to experience what you desire.
As far back as I can remember I could feel the sorrows and sadness of others.
Because of this
ability, my heart went out to many in Love
deep feelings of wanting to help.
My search was always for what would make each soul that came to me
wholeness and feel better.
Many say I have a
gift from God/Creator/All That Is.
In my heart I hold much Love & caring for others and all things.
I can see through the illusions and take you into your own knowing.
We have put many layers upon ourselves that hide the truth from us.
I am offering this gift from my heart to yours so you can feel this
And as you become able to recognize what Love is trying to tell you
in any given situation ... you
will know your true inner Self.
You will see and feel the beauty that you have always held
and you will see the
gifts you have to
Once you "feel" this connection
within you and know how to get in touch with It ...
you will not want to go back and be the same as you were before.
to want to hold this Oneness with Love very close to you
and you will find yourself expressing It in many beautiful and unique ways.
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