|
Searching & Advice
Are you looking for a Spiritual Teacher ... Spiritual Advisor ... Mentor or Life Coach?
It is wise to look for a
teacher that will uplift you and give you Loving encouragement,
one who will share everything with you, be it the truth
about
yourself or their self.
Look for a teacher who gives you
"a way"
to accomplish what you desire.
For what good is any information given to you,
if you don't understand how to apply it in your life?

There is a beautiful discovery waiting for
you and the increditable part of this puzzle is ...
the discovery is all about you.
From my heart ... by Unity
What
should we look for in a counselor, teacher, mentor, advisor, life coach?
A good teacher will guide you into taking a closer look at yourself. They will
bring you into self awareness.
They will show you a path into your heart, for the mind without the heart is
incomplete and vise versa.
They will explain the importance of trusting yourself and only doing what feels good in your heart.
Their advise should also include to only take the parts that feel good in any
teachings,
including in what they are presenting
as well.
A wise teacher will explain there is the way to "feel" what is right for you,
leaving your individual expression and choices completely up to you.
A wise teacher will not make decisions for you, for you learn from the decisions
you make.
Become aware of any
statements or teachings expressing "any kind of
separation".
For wherever separation appears - is a place where divine unconditional Love has not yet been found.
Separation shows a lesser Love, it is a place of fear, it is an awareness lacking grandness and
divinity.
Separation shows its face when one person is made higher and another is made lower.
It enters every time when one person makes themselves more than another ... for
any reason.
Separation is when one person thinks they are an old soul and says another is a young soul.
Separation exists when someone thinks they know and says another is but learning
...
for we are constantly exchanging roles with one another all the time ...
divinity talks though each of us at different times.
There are many times the student becomes the teacher and delivers a special
message.
When a teacher closes their doors to learning ... they cease to grow.
Life is a constant sculpting
of oneself into ones divine Self.
Life is an ongoing discovery and a constant unfolding.
Become aware of strict Initiations, Ceremonies, Practices or Classes
that firmly state you must do this or that in a certain way
to attain what you desire.
Would Love provide only one way to express Itself or many ways?
Would the path to divinity be long and confusing or short and simple
to realize?
Some teachers have others doing so much to clear, release and balance in order
to "become" something...
that those searching end up missing their grandness
and their individual expression in life itself.
Are you too busy doing things to become? Are you enjoying the process or is it
taking too long?
Do you want to be able to just "be" and take it from there?
Counselor of the Heart brings you back to yourself in honesty and sincerity.
Your life experiences depend on the path that you choose.
Your path can be long or short ... it becomes what you
believe it has to be.
If you are looking for a
sincere, well defined path to happiness and feeling your divinity,
if you are wanting to understand your life circumstances or make any kind of
life changes ...
take a look at your life "Through the Eyes of the Heart", it is my book
or I welcome you to come visit with me.
A wise teacher will never say things have to be done in a
specific way or order.
Divine Unconditional Love sets everyone free to find their own individual
and unique expression.
What truly matters is if the expression comes from one's heart and if it holds
unconditional Love.
A teacher of divinity is never vague or mysterious
...
they share all of the secrets because their way is pure from the heart and
soul.
A good teacher never makes you feel guilty or bad in any way.
They never say you are not enough or you are less for any reason.
A wise teacher will always guide you into thinking and feeling things out for
yourself.
A teacher who is very honest with you and who does not withhold what you most
need to hear, is true.
This is so you can clearly understand yourself and what you need to
take a closer
look at and perhaps change
to be happy and to become one within yourself.
A true teacher shows you how to stand on your own ...
and explains to you how to experience the grandness in life
without needing them.
Any teacher that keeps you coming over and over, or keeps secrets from you ... making you wait
until you reach a certain point before they share the rest of what they
have to say ...
may be keeping you from the personal growth and the transformation that would
help you now.
There are teachers, counselors, advisors that want to keep you
dependant on them,
they keep you from knowing for yourself. This type of teacher does not empower
you,
and unfortunately many end up spending
endless hours and or money
waiting.
A enlightened teacher Loves you enough to give it all.
This self-empowers you as an individual.
Unconditional Love sets all things
free, It shares everything
and wants everything to evolve in endless unique and beautiful ways.
A teacher of this caliber shows you how to find your own way with clarity
...
they help you understand yourself and your
life
and they offer the tools to accomplish your hearts desire.
I am Unity, I share that kind of Love here at Counselor of the Heart,
not only in my words, but in my book and in my sessions as well.

We are not so very different from one another at all
...
There is not a one of us who does not want
to feel Love.
Each person that lives wants to be accepted and wants to be acknowledged.
Why then do we hold back Love for one another and ourselves?
What are we fearing and why?
How do we change ... sincerely change?
How do we change how we feel? How do we change how we Love? How we change how we
look at things?
How do we see beyond what we think things are?

Many pages on this web site were not created to read from top to bottom,
please feel free to float around.
Each sentence below is a link, click
on any one that interests you to read more ...
Native American
Story - I feel as if I have
two wolves fighting in my heart
The
difference
between knowledge and wisdom and owning
Watching compared to listening to
others
You are a miracle
You can start right now and make a
new ending
Three sets of
profound sayings guiding us in wisdom ...
(1st set)
(2nd set)
(3rd set)
Would you like to know how and
why you are attracting certain things into your life?
Are we a
puppet to what others think of us?
Behind
the scenes and below the surface

A Native American story holds great wisdom ...
A Native American
grandfather was talking to his grandson about how he felt ...
He said ... "I feel as if I have two wolves fighting in my heart.
One wolf is the vengeful ... angry
... violent one.
The other wolf is the loving ... compassionate one."
The grandson asked him ... "Which wolf will win the fight in your
heart?"
The grandfather answered ... "The one I feed most."
Which wolf are you feeding most?
When we say we are going to change ...
we need to ask ourselves if we have a plan of how
we are going to bring this change into effect? It is very important to have that
part figured out.
Usually, the desire is there but the plan is not, words alone do not bring the results we desire.
If you desire to feed the compassionate one ...
find out how to change your negative thoughts and old habits in a way that will
last.
Back to
List

To acquire knowledge one
studies ... to acquire wisdom one observes.
Observation is a good way to find the truth in nature and ourselves.
But when we hold
great wisdom and never apply it, nothing really changes for the better.
Knowing vs. Owning...
Owning it is when we
take what we have come to know and we actually apply it
in our lives daily.
Minute by minute ... in every waking hour we are observing and applying our
insight.
This knowledge and wisdom becomes so much a part of us that we can no longer
separate from it
and it becomes our expression and shines through our every action.
Back to
List
It is wiser to watch the actions of others than it is to listen to
their
words ...
because truth is not always found in spoken words but truth is seen in their
actions.
Walking our talk is what makes a true difference in our life.
Many talk,
but they don't follow through with the Loving action called for in their very own words.
We teach our children responsibility,
but many times we do not follow through
with being responsible ourselves.
It is a true individual who follows through with the actions of his or her words
.
These souls actually make a difference
in our lives and on our planet.
They are very special souls indeed.
Back to
List
Advice is
what we ask others for when we already know the answer ...
Why? Because we didn't like the answer we ourselves came up with.
So we decide to play a game with ourselves pretending that we really don't know ...
hoping the one we ask will give us the answer we are wanting to hear.
You have always had the answers, dear one ...
if you think this is false,
just ask yourself what you would tell another in the very same situation.
Chances are, you will not be short on words or wisdom. (winking)

You are the miracle ... the miracle of divine expression in human form.
There are endless choices available to express this beautiful part of you.
There is an awareness awaiting you that will guide you into a beautiful
expression of yourself,
you can experience true happiness, inner peace, self love and healing.
Divine unconditional Love meant for the understanding and awareness you need to be
simple ...
for how else could we express the individual beauty we each have to offer?
Yoda says, "Do or do not do ... there is no
try."
Take the steps, dear one, your life will change on every level.
Back to List
Nobody can go back and start a new beginning ...
but you can
start today in this very moment and create a totally new - from now on.
Counselor of the Heart gives the spiritual wisdom to help you through
what is happening in your life right now.
You will discover something
important about yourself
and you will understand why these particular circumstances are unfolding at this
time.
You will find yourself
looking at the same thing as everyone else does (personal growth)
but you will think, feel and see something
totally different.
John Lennon said, "Life is what is happening to you while you are making
other plans."
What moment are you living in? Is it this moment? Or are you in a moment that doesn't exist?
At the end of your life
you will know that
nothing you have done will matter ... only who you have been while you were
doing it.
Conversations With God (book 4)
Back to
List

In
understanding we gain great
wisdom.
It's not what
happens to us that matters most ... it is what we do with it.
Holding a grander consciousness and seeing beyond what is normally seen is what
we are looking for.
We are wanting to know "how" to hold Love when the going gets tough.
The difference between the
impossible and the possible
lies in our consciousness and determination.
Never, ever give up on yourself, for
You are the Miracle!
Learn to see through the eyes of the divine being you truly are ...
take a new look at yourself "Through the Eyes of the Heart".
One is only as happy or unhappy as one imagines.
Tough Love says: Get over it ... whatever "it" is.
For "it" is keeping you from feeling good.
Say to yourself ... I Love myself more than
holding what hurts me.
Say ... I Love myself more than to find what bothers me.
Say ... I am going to find at least one positive thing that came from it. (And
do that for yourself!)
Self healing comes when you find something good instead of what you have been
finding ...
healing comes
when you Love yourself more than holding thoughts that do not allow you feel
good.
Back to
List
Find out why and how
you are attracting certain
things into your
life.
Know what to do to change what you are calling to yourself.
Become aware of the way you are sabotaging yourself.
Learn about the importance in the way you are wording your prayers ...
for some words
help bring what you desire while other words actually bring the opposite of what
you desire.
Unity at
Counselor of the Heart offers this awareness/awakening in a book and or personalized session.
There are many different definitions for the same words in our language. Lets
take the word Love.
What is your definition of Love?
If you are unhappy in any way, you may want to take another look at the
definition you are holding.
Does your definition of love have conditions and attachments connected to it?
Can you see where your attachments and conditions are?
And most of all, do you know why you have placed them where you have?
Back to
List
Are you a puppet to what others think of
you?
Do others make you feel good when they compliment you and make you feel bad
when they criticize or complain about you?
Wouldn't you like to be free of what others think?
Come into a true spiritual awakening of the heart and mind united ...
feel good and achieve the ultimate in life no matter what others are
thinking.
Counselor of the Heart shows you how.
Consequences and punishment are two different things.
Which label are you putting
on your life situations?
Which one do you think divine unconditional Love would see?
Don't compromise yourself ... you're all you've got!
If you don't do it ... who will, dear one?
Personal growth and feeling good is a choice.
Back to List
Never get so busy making a living ... that you forget to make a life.
When we die ... I do not believe the message we want on our tomb stones
to say will be ...
"I wish I would have worked more and enjoyed less."
How busy have you been lately?
Don't worry about what is ahead
... ever.
Just go as far as you can go ... from there your next step will become clearer.
We are all faced with great opportunities, brilliantly disguised as impossible situations.
Isn't it time to open your heart and mind and become aware in a way
that allows you to experience the best life has to offer?
If we look outside
of ourselves for any answers ...
they will always be someone else's answers not our own.
Who's answers are you accepting and why are you accepting their answers?
My tormentor today
is myself, left over from yesterday.
Are you
Loving yourself or beating yourself up?
The Now ...
Most people find it hard to live their life in the present simple.
They prefer the past complicated ... or the future depressive.
Written in
"The drops of love sea" by Eran Gurner
Where are your thoughts most of the day ...
In the past? The future?
Back to List
The Moment, the Now ... is the only moment that is real, dear one.
It is in the moment that all your Inner Guidance comes as well as all your
answers.
The past and the future do not not exist except in your mind ...
and they will rob you of your grandest expression if you visit them
too often.
I am here to explain to you how to connect with your inner guidance
and how to catch yourself when you are leaving the
Now.
If you are seeking to express Love to others ...
do Loving things with them not for them ... seek to empower them as well.
I have learned that the only time a person has the right to look down on another
...
is when they offering their hand to help them get back up on their feet.
When we offer to help another become their grandest we become God expression
in human form.
When we get in the pit with them or offer nothing we loose our grandest expressions in life.
The easiest way to define Who You Are is by defining who you are not.
Understand that when you experience that which you are not ...
the experience is never a "failure" in any way, dear one.
It is an experience to show you how to make a better choice in your
future.
This is what changes you from who you are now into who you want to be next.
Back to List
It is in sharing the most, not in gathering the most ...
that the most is received.
Your vision will become clear only
when you look into your heart.
Who looks outside ... dreams. Who looks
inside ... awakens!
Carl Jung
The question
becomes do we know how to look into our hearts and into our lives
and have the insight of what we are being shown?

There is so much going on
behind the scenes below the surface of life.
Much more than most people have an understanding and or awareness of.
Through the Eyes of the Heart holds the
keys to experience life
beautifully.
It
simplifies many of the ancient truths that we have heard
throughout our lives.
This Loving wisdom removes the confusion and shows a clear path
of how to attain true
happiness
and how to come from the grandest part of ourselves.
Know how to feel good in life's toughest
situations and experiences.
Open your eyes, heart and mind to the beauty you have
within by realizing better choices.
Enter the moment of heaven on earth.
When you choose awareness and the practice of the Universal Law of Love
you will "feel" the connection
of the Divine Love that you hold ...
It
is a true awakening and life changing
experience.
This
beautiful wisdom is shared in a personal way and it is also available in book
and eBook form.
It is given in pure Love to self empower you totally, you are given
everything you need ...
all that remains is practice.
Click on the left
picture below to receive this heartfelt awareness in a personal way.
Click on the right picture below to order the book or eBook holding the very
same beautiful wisdom.
"Through the Eyes of the Heart - Living Heaven On Earth".

If you would like to make give an exchange for what you have
received,
or you would like to help us help others ... please click below!
Thank you for coming
and sharing your beautiful energy with us.
Counselor of
the Heart
Helping
you understand how to experience your heart's desire in every way and in every
area of life.
Open to the Love That You Truly Are and experience the celebration of what
life can truly be.
unity@counseloroftheheart.com
© 2001 - 2011 Counselor of the Heart - All Rights Reserved.
Spiritual counselor, spiritual advisor, author and life coach teaches a
genuine path
to enlightenment using feeling, conscious self awareness and thinking with
your heart.
|