Searching & Advice

Looking for a Spiritual Teacher ... Spiritual Advisor ... Mentor or Life Coach?
It is wise to look for a teacher that will uplift you and give you Loving encouragement ...
 one who share's everything with you ... be it the truth about yourself or their self.
Look for a teacher who gives you "a way" to accomplish what you desire.
For what good is any information given to you, if you don't understand how to apply it in your life
and experience what you truly desire?
 

There is a whole new discovery waiting and the wonderful thing about it is ...
this discovery is about you.

From my heart ...
 what should we look for in a Counselor, Teacher, Mentor, Advisor, Life Coach ...

A good teacher will guide you into taking a closer look at yourself. They will bring you into self awareness.
They will show you the way to your heart, for the mind without the heart is incomplete.
They will explain the importance of trusting your heart and only doing what feels good in your heart.
This should advise you to only take the parts that feel good in what they are presenting as well.

The teacher is wise if they explain there is the way to "feel" what is right for you,
leaving your individual expression completely up to you.

A wise teacher will not make decisions for you, for you learn from the decisions you make.
Become aware of any statements or teachings expressing "any kind of separation".
Wherever separation appears is a place where Divine Love has not yet been found. 
Separation shows a lesser Love holding fear, it is a place lacking grandness and Divinity.

Separation shows its face when one person is made higher and another is made lower.
It enters every time when one person makes themselves more than another ... for any reason.
Separation is when one person thinks they are an old soul and says another is a young soul.
Separation exists when someone thinks they know and says another is but learning ...
because we are constantly exchanging roles with one another all the time.
Divinity talks though each of us at different times,
and there are many the student becomes the teacher delivering a message of Love.
When a teacher closes their doors to learning ... they cease to grow within.
Life is a constant sculpting of oneself into ones Divine Self.
Life is an ongoing discovery and a constant unfolding.

Become aware of strict Initiations, Ceremonies, Practices or Classes
that firmly state you must do this or that in a certain way to attain what you desire.
Would Love provide only one way to express Itself or many ways?
Would the path to Divinity be long and confusing or short and easily to realize?

Some teachers have others doing so much to clear, release and balance in order to "become" something...
that the one searching ends up missing their grandness and their individual expression in life itself.
Are you too busy doing things to become? Are you enjoying the process or is it taking too long?
Do you want to at last reach your goal so you can finally "be"?
Counselor of the Heart brings you back to yourself in honesty and sincerity.

Your life experiences depend on the path that you choose.
Your path can be long or short ... it becomes what you believe it has to be.

If you are looking for a sincere, well defined path to happiness and your Divinity,
if you are wanting to understand your life circumstances or make any kind of life changes ...
take a look at your life "Through the Eyes of the Heart", it is my book or come visit with me.

A wise teacher will never say things have to be done in a specific way or order.
 Divine Unconditional Love sets everyone free to find their own individual and unique expression.
What truly matters is if the expression comes from one's heart and if it holds unconditional Love.

A teacher of Divinity is never vague or mysterious ...
they share all of the secrets because their way is purely from the heart and soul
A good teacher never makes you feel guilty or bad in any way.
They never say you are not enough or less for any reason.

A wise teacher will always guide you into thinking and feeling things out for yourself.
A teacher who is very honest with you and who does not withhold what you most need to hear, is true.
This is so you can clearly understand yourself and what you need to take a closer look at
to be happy and become one with your own Divinity.

 A true teacher shows you how to stand on your own ...
and explains to you to know how to experience the grandness in life without needing the teacher.

Any teacher that keeps you coming over and over, or keeps secrets making you wait
until you reach a certain point before they share the rest of what they say they have to offer ...
robs you of the personal growth and the transformation that you could have now.
This type of teacher does not openly share spiritual truth, they keep you dependant on them,
they keep you from knowing for yourself. This type of teacher does not empower  you,
and unfortunately many end up spending endless hours and or money waiting.

A enlightened teacher Loves you enough to give it all. This self-empowers the individual.
Unconditional Love sets all things free and shares everything.
This unique kind of teacher shows you how to find your own way with clarity
eliminating the need of going to others to help you understand yourself and your life.

I am Unity, I share that kind of Love here at Counselor of the Heart.

There is not a one of us ... who does not want Love.
We all want to be Loved and we all want to give our Love.
Each person yearns to be accepted and wants to be acknowledged.
We are not so very different from one another at all.

Why then do we hold back Love for one another and ourselves?
What are we fearing and why? How do we change ... sincerely change?


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Each sentence below is a link, click on any one that interests you to read more ...

Native American Story - I feel as if I have two wolves fighting in my heart
The difference between knowledge and wisdom and owning
Watching compared to listening to others
You are a miracle
You can start right now and make a new ending

Three sets of profound sayings guiding us in wisdom ...
(1st set)   (2nd set)   (3rd set)

Would you like to know how and why you are attracting certain things into your life?
Are we a puppet to what others think of us?
Behind the scenes and below the surface

 A Native American story holds great wisdom ...
A Native American grandfather was talking to his grandson about how he felt ...
He said ... "I feel as if I have two wolves fighting in my heart.

One wolf is the vengeful ... angry ... violent one.
The other wolf is the loving ... compassionate one."

Which wolf are you feeding most? 

When we say we are going to change ... we need to ask ourselves if we have a plan of how
we are going to bring this change into effect? It is very important to have that part figured out.
Usually, the desire is there but the plan is not, words alone do not bring the results we desire.
If you desire to feed the compassionate one ...
find out how to change your negative thoughts and habits in a way that will last.

To acquire knowledge one must study ... to acquire wisdom one must observe.
Observation is the wisest way to find the truth in nature and ourselves.
But if one holds great wisdom and it is never applied, nothing really changes for the better.

Owning ...
is when we not only realize what we have come to know ...  but we actually apply it in our lives daily.
Minute by minute ... in every waking hour we are observing and applying our insight.
This knowledge and wisdom becomes so much a part of us that we can no longer separate from it
and it becomes our expression and shines through our every action.

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It is wiser to watch the actions of others than it is to listen to their words ...
because truth is not always found in spoken words but it is seen in their actions.
Walking our talk is what makes a true difference in life.
Many talk, but they don't follow through with the Loving action called for in their very own words.
We teach our children responsibility,
but many times we do not follow through with being responsible ourselves.

People who follow through with the actions of their words are responsible.
These souls actually make a difference in our lives and on our planet.
They are very special souls indeed.

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Advice is what we ask others for when we already know the answer
but don't like the answer we ourselves came up with.
So we decide to play a game with ourselves pretending that we really don't know ...
hoping the one we ask will give us the answer we are wanting to hear.
You have always had all the answers, dear one ...
if you think this is false, just ask yourself what you would tell another in the very same situation.
Chances are, you will not be short on words or wisdom.

You are the miracle ... a miracle of Divine expression in human form.
Have you chosen what you are going to express with this beautiful part of you?
There is an awareness awaiting you that will guide you into this beautiful expression of yourself,
 you can experience true happiness, inner peace, self love and healing.
Divine Love meant for the understanding you need to be simple ...
for how else could we express It through the individual beauty we each have to offer?

Yoda says, "Do or do not do ... there is no try."

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Nobody can go back and start a new beginning ...
but you can start today in this very moment and create a totally new - from now on.
Counselor of the Heart gives the spiritual wisdom for you recognize your Divinity from within your heart.
This is a true path into the beautiful discovery of you.
You will find yourself looking at the same thing as everyone else does
but thinking, feeling and seeing something totally different.

John Lennon said, "Life is what is happening to you while you are making other plans."
What moment are you living in?  Is it this moment? Or one that doesn't exist?

In understanding we gain great wisdom.
It's not what happens to us that matters most but it is what we do with it.
Holding a grander consciousness and seeing beyond what is normally seen is what it is all about.
It is about knowing "how" to hold Love when the going gets tough.

The difference between the impossible and the possible lies in our consciousness and determination.
Never, ever give up on you, sweet one, for You Are the Miracle!
Learn to see through the eyes of the Divine Being you truly are ...
take a new look at yourself "Through the Eyes of the Heart".

One is only as happy or unhappy as one imagines.

Tough Love says: get over it ... whatever it is.
For "it" is keeping you from feeling good. Say to yourself ... I Love myself more than holding that.
Say ... I Love myself more than to let "that" bother me.
Self healing comes when you let things be, when you allow ...
when you Love yourself more than holding hurtful thoughts.

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 Find out why and how you are attracting certain things into your life.
Know what to do to change what you are calling to yourself.
Become aware of the way you are sabotaging yourself in certain areas of your life.
Learn about the different ways of praying and that some ways
help bring what you desire while other ways actually bring the opposite of what you desire.
Unity at Counselor of the Heart offers this awareness in a book and or personalized session.

There are many different definitions for the same words in our language. 
Do you have a true definition of what Love actually is?
Does your love have conditions and attachments connected to it? No you say?
If you are unhappy in any way ... you may want to take another look.
Can you see where your attachments and conditions are?
And most of all, do you know why you have placed them on your Love?

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Are you a puppet to what others think of you?
Do others make you feel good when they compliment you and feel bad when they complain about you?
Isn't it time to be free of what others think?
Come into a true spiritual awakening of the heart and mind united ...
 feel good and achieve the ultimate in life.
Counselor of the Heart shows you how to become consciously aware of you.

Consequences and punishment are two different things.
Which label are you putting on your life situations?
Which one do you think Divine Unconditional Love would see?

Don't compromise yourself ... you're all you've got!
If you don't do it ... who will, dear one?
Personal growth is a choice.

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If we look outside of ourselves for any answers ...
they will always be someone else's answers not our own.
Who's answers are you accepting and why? 

My tormentor today is myself, left over from yesterday.
Are you Loving yourself or beating yourself up? 

The Now ...
Most people find it hard to live their life in the present simple.
They prefer the past complicated ... or the future depressive.
Where are your thoughts most of the day ...
In the past?  The future?

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The Moment, the Now ... is the only moment that is real, dear one.
It is in the moment that all your Inner Guidance comes as well as all your answers.
The past and the future do not not exist except in your mind ...
and they will rob you of your grandest expression if you allow yourself to visit them often.
Come to understand how easy it is to connect to your Guidance and keep yourself in the Now.

If you are seeking to express Love to others ...
do Loving things with them not for them ... seek to empower them as well.

 This beautiful wisdom is shared in a personal way and it is also available in book form.
It is given in Love to self empower you totally - what is shared is complete.

Click on the left picture below to be given this heartfelt awareness in a personal way.
Click on the right picture below for the book holding the very same beautiful wisdom.
"Through the Eyes of the Heart - Living Heaven On Earth".

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 Make life the celebration it should be ... open to the Love That You Truly Are.

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