Searching & Advice

Are you looking for a Spiritual Teacher ... Spiritual Advisor ... Mentor or Life Coach?
It is wise to look for a teacher that will uplift you and give you Loving encouragement,
one who will share everything with you, be it the truth about yourself or their self.
Look for a teacher who gives you "a way" to accomplish what you desire.
For what good is any information given to you, if you don't understand how to apply it in your life?

There is a beautiful discovery waiting for you and the increditable part of this puzzle is ...
the discovery is all about you.

From my heart ... by Unity
 What should we look for in a counselor, teacher, mentor, advisor, life coach?

A good teacher will guide you into taking a closer look at yourself. They will bring you into self awareness.
They will show you a path into your heart, for the mind without the heart is incomplete and vise versa.
They will explain the importance of trusting yourself and only doing what feels good in your heart.
Their advise should also include to only take the parts that feel good in any teachings,
including in what they are presenting as well.

A wise teacher will explain there is the way to "feel" what is right for you,
leaving your individual expression and choices completely up to you.

A wise teacher will not make decisions for you, for you learn from the decisions you make.
Become aware of any statements or teachings expressing "any kind of separation".
For wherever separation appears - is a place where divine unconditional Love has not yet been found. 
Separation shows a lesser Love, it is a place of fear, it is an awareness lacking grandness and divinity.

Separation shows its face when one person is made higher and another is made lower.
It enters every time when one person makes themselves more than another ... for any reason.
Separation is when one person thinks they are an old soul and says another is a young soul.
Separation exists when someone thinks they know and says another is but learning ...
for we are constantly exchanging roles with one another all the time ...
divinity talks though each of us at different times.
There are many times the student becomes the teacher and delivers a special message.
When a teacher closes their doors to learning ... they cease to grow.
Life is a constant sculpting of oneself into ones divine Self.
Life is an ongoing discovery and a constant unfolding.

Become aware of strict Initiations, Ceremonies, Practices or Classes
that firmly state you must do this or that in a certain way to attain what you desire.
Would Love provide only one way to express Itself or many ways?
Would the path to divinity be long and confusing or short and simple to realize?

Some teachers have others doing so much to clear, release and balance in order to "become" something...
that those searching end up missing their grandness and their individual expression in life itself.
Are you too busy doing things to become? Are you enjoying the process or is it taking too long?
Do you want to be able to just "be" and take it from there?
Counselor of the Heart brings you back to yourself in honesty and sincerity.

Your life experiences depend on the path that you choose.
Your path can be long or short ... it becomes what you believe it has to be.

If you are looking for a sincere, well defined path to happiness and feeling your divinity,
if you are wanting to understand your life circumstances or make any kind of life changes ...
take a look at your life "Through the Eyes of the Heart", it is my book
or I welcome you to come visit with me.

A wise teacher will never say things have to be done in a specific way or order.
 Divine Unconditional Love sets everyone free to find their own individual and unique expression.
What truly matters is if the expression comes from one's heart and if it holds unconditional Love.

A teacher of divinity is never vague or mysterious ...
they share all of the secrets because their way is pure from the heart and soul.
A good teacher never makes you feel guilty or bad in any way.
They never say you are not enough or you are less for any reason.

A wise teacher will always guide you into thinking and feeling things out for yourself.
A teacher who is very honest with you and who does not withhold what you most need to hear, is true.
This is so you can clearly understand yourself and what you need to
take a closer look at and perhaps change to be happy and to become one within yourself.

 A true teacher shows you how to stand on your own ...
and explains to you how to experience the grandness in life without needing them.

Any teacher that keeps you coming over and over, or keeps secrets from you ... making you wait
until you reach a certain point before they share the rest of what they have to say ...
may be keeping you from the personal growth and the transformation that would help you now.
There are teachers, counselors, advisors that want to keep you dependant on them,
they keep you from knowing for yourself. This type of teacher does not empower  you,
and unfortunately many end up spending endless hours and or money waiting.

A enlightened teacher Loves you enough to give it all. This self-empowers you as an individual.
Unconditional Love sets all things free, It shares everything
and wants everything to evolve in endless unique and beautiful ways.
A teacher of this caliber shows you how to find your own way with clarity ...
they help you understand yourself and your life
and they offer the tools to accomplish your hearts desire.

I am Unity, I share that kind of Love here at Counselor of the Heart,
not only in my words, but in my book and in my sessions as well.

We are not so very different from one another at all ...
There is not a one of us who does not want to feel Love.
Each person that lives wants to be accepted and wants to be acknowledged.

Why then do we hold back Love for one another and ourselves?
What are we fearing and why? How do we change ... sincerely change?
How do we change how we feel? How do we change how we Love? How we change how we look at things?
How do we see beyond what we think things are?


Many pages on this web site were not created to read from top to bottom,
please feel free to float around.

Each sentence below is a link, click on any one that interests you to read more ...

Native American Story - I feel as if I have two wolves fighting in my heart
The difference between knowledge and wisdom and owning
Watching compared to listening to others
You are a miracle
You can start right now and make a new ending

Three sets of profound sayings guiding us in wisdom ...
(1st set)   (2nd set)   (3rd set)

Would you like to know how and why you are attracting certain things into your life?
Are we a puppet to what others think of us?
Behind the scenes and below the surface

 A Native American story holds great wisdom ...
A Native American grandfather was talking to his grandson about how he felt ...
He said ... "I feel as if I have two wolves fighting in my heart.

One wolf is the vengeful ... angry ... violent one.
The other wolf is the loving ... compassionate one."

Which wolf are you feeding most? 

When we say we are going to change ... we need to ask ourselves if we have a plan of how
we are going to bring this change into effect? It is very important to have that part figured out.
Usually, the desire is there but the plan is not, words alone do not bring the results we desire.
If you desire to feed the compassionate one ...
find out how to change your negative thoughts and old habits in a way that will last.

To acquire knowledge one studies ... to acquire wisdom one observes.
Observation is a good way to find the truth in nature and ourselves.
But when we hold great wisdom and never apply it, nothing really changes for the better.

Knowing vs. Owning...
Owning it is when we take what we have come to know and we actually apply it in our lives daily.
Minute by minute ... in every waking hour we are observing and applying our insight.
This knowledge and wisdom becomes so much a part of us that we can no longer separate from it
and it becomes our expression and shines through our every action.

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It is wiser to watch the actions of others than it is to listen to their words ...
because truth is not always found in spoken words but truth is seen in their actions.
Walking our talk is what makes a true difference in our life.
Many talk, but they don't follow through with the Loving action called for in their very own words.
We teach our children responsibility,
but many times we do not follow through with being responsible ourselves.

It is a true individual who follows through with the actions of his or her words .
These souls actually make a difference in our lives and on our planet.
They are very special souls indeed.

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Advice is what we ask others for when we already know the answer ...
Why? Because we didn't like the answer we ourselves came up with.
So we decide to play a game with ourselves pretending that we really don't know ...
hoping the one we ask will give us the answer we are wanting to hear.
You have always had the answers, dear one ...
if you think this is false, just ask yourself what you would tell another in the very same situation.
Chances are, you will not be short on words or wisdom. (winking)

You are the miracle ... the miracle of divine expression in human form.
There are endless choices available to express this beautiful part of you.
There is an awareness awaiting you that will guide you into a beautiful expression of yourself,
 you can experience true happiness, inner peace, self love and healing.
Divine unconditional Love meant for the understanding and awareness you need to be simple ...
for how else could we express the individual beauty we each have to offer?

Yoda says, "Do or do not do ... there is no try." 
Take the steps, dear one, your life will change on every level.

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Nobody can go back and start a new beginning ...
but you can start today in this very moment and create a totally new - from now on.
Counselor of the Heart gives the spiritual wisdom to help you through
 what is happening in your life right now.

You will discover something important about yourself
and you will understand why these particular circumstances are unfolding at this time.
You will find yourself looking at the same thing as everyone else does (personal growth)
but you will think, feel and see something totally different.

John Lennon said, "Life is what is happening to you while you are making other plans."
What moment are you living in?  Is it this moment? Or are you in a moment that doesn't exist?

In understanding we gain great wisdom.
It's not what happens to us that matters most ... it is what we do with it.
Holding a grander consciousness and seeing beyond what is normally seen is what we are looking for.
We are wanting to know "how" to hold Love when the going gets tough.

The difference between the impossible and the possible lies in our consciousness and determination.
Never, ever give up on yourself, for You are the Miracle!
Learn to see through the eyes of the divine being you truly are ...
take a new look at yourself "Through the Eyes of the Heart".

One is only as happy or unhappy as one imagines.

Tough Love says: Get over it ... whatever "it" is. For "it" is keeping you from feeling good.
Say to yourself ... I Love myself more than holding what hurts me.
Say ... I Love myself more than to find what bothers  me.
Say ... I am going to find at least one positive thing that came from it. (And do that for yourself!)
Self healing comes when you find something good instead of what you have been finding ...
healing comes when you Love yourself more than holding thoughts that do not allow you feel good.

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 Find out why and how you are attracting certain things into your life.
Know what to do to change what you are calling to yourself.
Become aware of the way you are sabotaging yourself.
Learn about the importance in the way you are wording your prayers ...
for some words help bring what you desire while other words actually bring the opposite of what you desire.
Unity at Counselor of the Heart offers this awareness/awakening in a book and or personalized session.

There are many different definitions for the same words in our language. Lets take the word Love.
What is your definition of Love? 
If you are unhappy in any way, you may want to take another look at the definition you are holding.
Does your definition of love have conditions and attachments connected to it?
Can you see where your attachments and conditions are?
And most of all, do you know why you have placed them where you have?

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Are you a puppet to what others think of you?
Do others make you feel good when they compliment you and make you feel bad
 when they criticize or complain about you?
Wouldn't you like to be free of what others think?
Come into a true spiritual awakening of the heart and mind united ...
 feel good and achieve the ultimate in life no matter what others are thinking.
Counselor of the Heart shows you how.

Consequences and punishment are two different things.
Which label are you putting on your life situations?
Which one do you think divine unconditional Love would see?

Don't compromise yourself ... you're all you've got!
If you don't do it ... who will, dear one?
Personal growth and feeling good is a choice.

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If we look outside of ourselves for any answers ... they will always be someone else's answers not our own.
Who's answers are you accepting and why are you accepting their answers? 

My tormentor today is myself, left over from yesterday.
Are you Loving yourself or beating yourself up? 

The Now ...
Most people find it hard to live their life in the present simple.
They prefer the past complicated ... or the future depressive.
Written in "The drops of love sea" by Eran Gurner

Where are your thoughts most of the day ...
In the past?  The future?

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The Moment, the Now ... is the only moment that is real, dear one.
It is in the moment that all your Inner Guidance comes as well as all your answers.
The past and the future do not not exist except in your mind ...
and they will rob you of your grandest expression if you visit them too often.
I am here to explain to you how to connect with your inner guidance
and how to catch yourself when you are leaving the Now.

If you are seeking to express Love to others ...
do Loving things with them not for them ... seek to empower them as well.

It is in sharing the most, not in gathering the most ... that the most is received.

Your vision will become clear only when you look into your heart.
Who looks outside ... dreams.  Who looks inside ... awakens!
Carl Jung
The question becomes do we know how to look into our hearts and into our lives
and have the insight of what we are being shown?



There is so much going on behind the scenes below the surface of life.
Much more than most people have an understanding and or awareness of.

Through the Eyes of the Heart holds the keys to experience life beautifully.
It simplifies many of the ancient truths that we have heard throughout our lives.
This Loving wisdom removes the confusion and shows a clear path of how to attain true happiness
and how to come from the grandest part of ourselves.
Know how to feel good in life's toughest situations and experiences.
Open your eyes, heart and mind to the beauty you have within by realizing better choices.
Enter the moment of heaven on earth.
When you choose awareness and the practice of the Universal Law of Love
you will "feel" the connection of the Divine Love that you hold ...
It is a true awakening and life changing experience.

 This beautiful wisdom is shared in a personal way and it is also available in book and eBook form.
It is given in pure Love to self empower you totally, you are given everything you need ...
all that remains is practice.

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"Through the Eyes of the Heart - Living Heaven On Earth".

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