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Counselor of the Heart - Insights by Unity
A Divine Connection - A Loving Consciousness

Experience genuine enlightenment - take a different look at yourself and your life ...
"Through the Eyes of the Heart"

Through the Eyes of the Heart - Living Heaven On Earth
A life altering book by Unity
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Self Empowerment ... Transformation ... Divine Love ... Higher Consicousness

Are You Leaving Yourself Out?
Logic with Love - A Clean Slate  
Creator in the Drivers Seat ...

As I Am Observing You

A Leap in Awareness ...
If I Am Wise ...
The Walking Stick Story and A Lesson Well Learned!
All Paths Lead to No Where ...
You May Say You Love ...
Lovework! The Name Fits
Happiness Must Be Chosen In Every Moment ...
Forgiveness can take forever - but Love will set you free
What Are You Feeling?
Ego Was Given A Bad Rap ...
"Isn't Spiritual Supposed to Be Free?"
A Different View

A State of Being by Unity
The Body - The Beam - A Piece (The Peace) of God


Are You Leaving Yourself Out?

I used to believe there was really only one rule to follow and that was ...

"The highest good of all and the harm of none".

I thought this saying pretty much summed up for us and helped us check to see if our actions were of the highest accord.

The other day I was doing some energy work on a beautiful soul who had tired herself out
and as I prayed the words above ... God/Holy Spirit added a few words.
How powerful they were for those of us who have no problem following the rule above
but forget about or leave ourselves out.

I would very much like to share the new version with you now ...

"The highest good of all,
including myself, and the harm of none."

The wisdom and the Love in the new words included opened my eyes to how many times I have denied my own needs.

May the Love shared bless you in every way.
Love 'Unity'
7-18-09


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Logic with Love - A Clean Slate

So many times I find myself in logic without Love.

I have found balance for without both ... something is missing.

In my new found understanding ...
Love called out to me and said, "use your logic and gather all the emotions connected to any
and all experiences that have make you feel bad in any way and put them in a box or suitcase."

"You can save the box and suitcase anywhere you'd like
so you can re-open it at any time and feel those lousy emotions again."

Hold with you now, only the information you learned or gathered from those experiences,
for it is a library for you to use. Love smiled and said.

For as of today and in every moment that follows you have a "clean slate" from now on.
Choose better, create yourself anew.
If you don't like what you have chosen to experience or are experiencing ...
give yourself a clean slate again ... no negative emotions allowed, no beating yourself up,
put them in the box or suitcase and now use the knowledge you gained and make a better choice.
This is how you learn to create the you ... you have been waiting to experience.

Ahhh, Love with logic now that's Divine!
Written by Unity - August 12th, 2008 for myspace, counseloroftheheart


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Creator in the Drivers Seat ...

I have forgotten what I really am.

I mistook my body for myself.

I forgot Creator is within me and that my body is here to assist Creator and me
in having a wonderful experience here on Earth.

I am now giving the steering wheel back to Creator and letting Him/Her drive.
Together we are going to have the time of my life!
For my Creator is Love and in that very pure Love ... there is no sickness, aging, stress or struggle.
It was only when I took the steering wheel away from Creator that my thoughts and fears created something less.

With great joy and wisdom ... I'm no longer driving,
I am dancing all the way as the passenger into something grander than I could have ever imagined on my own.

Written by Unity - August 12th, 2008 for myspace, counseloroftheheart

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 As I Am Observing You ...

As I am listening to you ... I can feel your anger.
As I am here with you ... I find you are upsetting me.
As I am watching you ... I see you are so kind to others.
As I am standing here observing you ... I can see your meanness so clearly.
As I am standing here watching at you ... I realize you are a joy to others.
As I am observing you ... I see feel you are afraid.
As I am watching you ... I see what a delight you are.
As I am here looking at you ... I feel your loneliness.
As I am here with you ... I feel your sadness.
As I am here with you I feel uncomfortable.
As I am listening to you ___________.

I now realize that you, whoever you are at the time, are showing me something about myself.
What I am witnessing and what is happening with you is not solely about you ...
I am being shown aspects of myself through you.

And if I am wise, as our experience together unfolds I will take notice of what it is that I see in you ...
for what I am seeing has something very important to do with me.
You are my teacher, an actor, a mirror playing a role - to help me see myself more clearly.
Am I seeing something good in you or am I seeing something that I think you need to change?
Now in my wisdom I take another look at what is rising in me because of you.
What am I seeing,  feeling,  judging or is there something I have an attachment or condition on?

And now wisdom, instead of blaming you, I thank you,
for showing me divinely and exactly what I needed to see and perhaps change ... in myself.

Written by Unity, Counselor of the Heart - March 18th, 2008
With Love

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A Leap in Awareness 4x

 If we look closely at the thoughts going round and round in our minds
we will find this dialog going on of how we are continually justifying ourselves more special than another -
more right - more knowing - more pure - more something ... Or
we find ourselves continually justifying ourselves less special than another -
less right, less knowing, less pure, less something. Why is that?

Perhaps we could look at it as we are just as special as everyone else or that we are all special ...
and that our individual uniqueness is what adds a new flavor, a new note, a change in vibration or a creative twist
to what special already is?

The Miracle in Transformation

Perhaps, just perhaps, when we are helping another ... we are really helping a part of ourselves.
Unbeknown to us of course.

The Miracle in Transformation

If everything is bringing us to Love  - how can there be darkness?
What if darkness is really Love wearing a disguise so It can bring us back to Itself ...  just in a different way?

The Miracle in Transformation

Sometimes we find ourselves soft in a way that does not serve or honor ourselves ... or another.
Perhaps we are only using our hearts,
maybe we don't stand up for ourselves or we find ourselves enabling the ones we Love.

After learning this we become hard in order to overcome the behavior we find ourselves repeating.
Perhaps now we are using our heads to help get us out of doing what we usually do.
But after we have strengthened this part of ourselves we may want to take another look at ourselves
and ask ... is hard or tough what we want to express and be?

Perhaps this is when we need to return to being soft and gentle once again
trusting that we have now come full circle and can use our heart and head together
and this will help us not only hold our new found knowledge but express it in a beautiful way.

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If I Am Wise ...

As I speak words to help another, if I am wise, I will listen very closely to what I have to say ...
for I am saying what I, myself, needs to hear.

As I tell another what to do, if I am wise, I will listen very closely to the action I tell them to take ...
for it is the action I, myself, needs to take.

As I spend my time trying to get others to hear what to do for their own good
and explain what they need to do to feel good,
if I am wise, I will notice I, myself, have not done what I have recommended.

As I am speaking ... I do not do.
I tell others to watch themselves and I stop watching myself in the process.
I am working on them, instead of practicing the wisdom myself
shared from my very own mouth and heart.

People come into my life so I can explain what I most need to hear.
If I miss that, if I think it is only them with the problem ...
I keep preaching and never go beyond to hearing my own message.

When I am wise, less and less people will show up mirroring to me what I most need to see -
for I will have fixed the biggest problem of all, myself.

Written by Unity, Counselor of the Heart - September  8th, 2007
Author of, "Through the Eyes of the Heart".

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The Walking Stick Story and A Lesson Well Learned!

An enlightening story for healers and those who think they constantly need to help others.


One day I was coming out of the door of the camper we were living in
and I noticed a regular visitor, a walking stick. He had picked an awful place to rest, I thought,
right there on my door, he could get hurt with us going in and out of that door.
So I decided to help the walking stick.
I moved him over to the picnic table where I thought he would be safe.
Well the picnic table was very close to the bird feeder
and before I realized that the picnic table might not be a good place to put him,
a bird took off one of the walking sticks legs!

Well I ran over to help the walking stick once again.
The poor thing now only had five legs, so I moved him over to our tent.
Walking sticks seemed to like to crawl up the screening on the tent
and I figured now that he had a leg missing it would be easy for him to maneuver there.
Smiling and frowning at the same time because of the mishap
and the good place I had thought of to put him,
I left him alone.

I went back in the camper for while and then went outside again to check on my walking stick friend.
As I looked over our tent, my eyes went to the top where all the poles fit into a pentagon shaped holder
and there between all those poles was one of the biggest spider webs I had ever seen.
My eyes began frantically searching the tent for the walking stick.
I found myself focused about an inch away from where the web began and much to my dismay …
there was my friend about to walk right into it!
I couldn’t stop thinking about the spider’s sting if I didn’t get to him in time! I had to help him!
Well the top of the tent was high and I couldn’t quite reach the walking stick
 but I was determined to rescue him.
So I began jumping up and down and hitting the tent.
Well the walking stick bounced off the tent and hit one of the poles on the way down
and he lost another leg!
Now he only had four legs and the legs he lost caused his balance to be off.

I had to do something!  In my great want to help
I ran inside to my computer and searched the internet to find out what kind of food
walking sticks ate so I could put him close to his food since he was having so much trouble walking.
I found that they ate oak leaves. Well  we had an oak tree right behind the camper.
All I had to do was put him on one of the leaves. So I picked him up once again,
walked over and got on top of our lawn mower that was sitting on a trailer
but those darn leaves were too high to reach.
Wobbling horribly and with my arm at full length and stretched out,
I finally got the walking stick on a crooked hanging oak leaf. I did it!
I had helped him get to his food source, and satisfied with that I left him to live out his life.

I went back inside the camper but after a while my curiosity got to me
so I went out to check on my friend.
He had fallen off that crooked oak leaf, he was missing another leg
and was on the ground being eaten by ants! I couldn’t believe it.
I picked him up and brushed all the ants off him.
I then climbed on top of the lawn mower again and balancing the best I could
with the poor walking stick in hand, I reached and pulled off the very leave he fell off of.
I went into the camper and got a clear shallow dish to put him in.
I crumbled up the oak leaf and placed it next to him and I put a little purified water in there too.
I had to care for him from now on because he couldn’t make it on his own anymore.
But where would I keep him?
I couldn’t take him inside my camper in that dish because my kitty would eat him for sure.
I had to think this out.
So I put the dish containing my walking stick friend on the seat of an outside chair
that was shaded from the sun by our awning ... while I pondered what to do.

I was only in the camper a half hour trying to figure out what to do
when I decided I should go out and check on him.
Well, the sun had traveled across the sky and was shinning under the awning directly on that glass dish!
There was the little walking stick fried and stuck to that hot dish.

So the next time you think you're helping someone or something, you might want to think again …
because that little walking stick was just fine where he was until I decided to help him, over and over and over!

Written by Unity, Counselor of the Heart, June 2007
Author of “Through the Eyes of the Heart”

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All Paths Lead to No Where ...

All paths lead to no where ...
but if you find Love along your path you will have found what you are looking for.

no-where is now-here
Be in the present and hear your soul whisper ..."Choose to express the Love that You Truly Are."

I Am - You Are ... whatever we choose to be in every given moment. Choose Grandly.

Written by Unity, Counselor of the Heart - September 6th, 2007

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You May Say You Love ...

Love is what is prompting you at all times.
All your life experiences take you on a path to hopefully choose Love.
You are creating all the situations you find yourself in by Loving and or not Loving.
The people who show up in your life are teachers, unknowingly, to show you something
about where you are Loving and where you are not.

You may say ... "Well, I Love ... I don't need to know this"

And then I would have to ask, "When was the last time you stopped and Loved yourself?"

Written by Unity - Counselor of the Heart - October 14th, 2007

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Lovework! The Name Fits.

When helping others understand how to feel better
and know how to deal with the situations they found themselves in,
I gave each person a specific type of homework depending on what the problem area was,
so they could improve their life experience.

Today, I announce my own awakening.
It was never homework at all - it was Lovework.
And ninety nine out of a hundred times it was working on finding Love for themselves.

What a beautiful word it is. Lovework. And so it shall be. And so it is.

Written by Unity - Counselor of the Heart - October 14th, 2007

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Happiness Must Be Chosen In Every Moment ...

Happiness is our natural state but it is something that must be chosen in every moment we enter into.

Whether you know it or not ... you are simply waiting for yourself to Love.
Where ever or when ever you aren't happy ... your life experiences are guiding you to Love.
You, yourself are creating all the situations you are experiencing because you are seeking to express Love.
What you search for is found when you realize it is all about calling this Love out of yourself.
Your feelings are co-creating with your thoughts and they are bringing specific life experiences to you.

What area of life are you insecure in?
What area of life is challenging you? What are you upset about?
What are you primarily thinking and feeling about yourself? Others?
The situations you find yourself in? Who bothers you?

What is going on with you physically? What is going on in you mentally and emotionally?
What are you thinking and feeling into existence?

And most important ...
what is it that you aren't understanding that could change you're whole life experience?

Written by Unity - Counselor of the Heart and Life Coach - October 2007
Taken from http://www.thinkwiththeheart.com

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Forgiveness can take forever - but Love will set you free

Everyone seems to be working on forgiveness these days.
We want to how to truly forgive so we can be at peace.
We want to experience this feeling we have been told about that truly sets us free.
The truth is, the feeling and freedom we are looking for
does not come from finding forgiveness – it comes from finding Love.

We were told that if we can find forgiveness we will feel better.
We know we need to find something
because we are not enjoying feeling bad, hurt, angry or resentful in any way.
We also know that if we continue to allow negative feelings to bother us,
that we are literally hurting our mental and physical health.

Because we have been told that forgiveness brings us a feeling of peace,
and peace is what we are seeking … we attempt to forgive, over and over.
But forgiveness evades us because when we try to forgive,
we find ourselves focused once again on those hurtful feelings we hold
and then the painful events repeatedly circle in our minds. We cannot free ourselves of the drama.

Therefore we need to take a closer look at forgiveness
for it is virtually impossible to forgive something when we keep focusing on the hurt and pain.
How can we be at peace if we are continually reliving the pain and hurt of an event
in our thoughts and hearts? We can’t.

Once upon a time an old man was robbed at gun point and he was beaten until he fell to the ground.
He was found and taken to the hospital. During his recovery the nurse who was taking care of him
noticed how undisturbed he was about the event.
She asked him how he could be so peaceful
and why he wasn’t angry at the man who did this horrible thing to him.
The old man answered her and said; “I guess it all depends on how you think of things.”
He began to explain that as the robber was taking all of his things; among them was a gold watch.
The old man described to the robber that his grandfather had given him that watch just before he died
and he asked the robber if he could please keep the watch because it meant very much to him.
The robber looked at the old man, grumbled and threw the watch back at him.
The robber then fled the scene and left the old man lying there.
The old man explained to the nurse, when I think of the robbery what I choose to remember is this,
the robber gave me back my grandfather’s gold watch that means so much to me,
and even though he had a gun he let me live. He didn’t have to do either.

As much as we would like to, we cannot change another, what another does
nor did - we can only change ourselves.
Peace comes from finding and thinking something good about even the most hurtful events.
It does not come from thinking and reliving the hurtful parts of the events we found ourselves in.
To find peace, you must first find something golden (the silver lining) to focus on.
Peace accompanies Love (the goodness or positive).

This wisdom is presented so you can feel good and be at peace when you think
about an uncomfortable event or are with or think about a person that bothers you.
It is very important to understand that this finding something good is for “you”.
It is not for anyone but you. It is not for the one who you believe hurt you.

The ultimate wake up is most of us end up working on forgiveness forever,
but if we find the Love we will set ourselves free of whatever it is.
There is no forgiveness – there is only Love.
Our challenge is always to find the Love (the good and the positive).
When we do - having to forgive anyone or anything disappears f
or we are no longer focused on, and bound to, what is wrong or what hurts.
It is the only way to truly be free of the negativity we are holding about any person or circumstance.

The old man found two good things, so can you no matter what has happened in your life.
The moral ends up being … find the Love (something - anything positive to look at)
or suffer the (consequences) worst of the event over and over in your mind and heart.

Therefore, if you are feeling bad and you want to feel good - change what you are thinking about now
and how you are currently looking at the situation you feel bad about.
Change your perception – how you see the circumstance or person.
Each thought causes you to “feel” a certain way.
You can change how you feel by simply changing your thought.
To feel good, find a good or positive thought to focus on.
You need to find at least one good thing about the person or circumstance that is bothering you.
The more good things you find, the better you will feel.
Focus on these things and receive the gift your shift in perception blesses you with.
This positive action on your part is how to make a life change; this is how to make your life better.
It is the miracle of Love.

Forgiveness doesn’t work for the most part
because it puts you in a place of focusing on what is wrong and what hurts.
Finding Love works because when you are focusing on what is positive you naturally feel good.
Finding the Love or good in things is how you experience life in a joyful way.
When you get used to finding the Love in events, others and yourself,
you experience a taste of heaven no matter what is going on in your life.

It is now that your homework truly begins.
Every time your focus goes to back to the negative event or to negative thoughts
about another (in the beginning we normally find ourselves reliving our negative thought patterns) –
your job is to focus on the good and the positive.
Keep returning your thoughts to the good and positive things you found.
Every time you find yourself thinking about the event in a bad way -
quickly return to the more Loving thoughts.
Eventually the ping pong game of going back and fourth will slow down.
You will be able to hold the good Loving thoughts … and as you do, you will be free.
Free of the pain. Free of feeling bad. Free from having to forgive.
And it will all be because you chose a Loving focus, you chose to find the Love -
which is usually our challenge to begin with.

Love doesn’t change the past, but it does change the present and how you feel now.
The choice was always Love. In the end all that matters is Love. Let what they did – be.
Do yourself a favor, find the Love now and set yourself free.

Written by, Unity - (UnityLove) - Counselor of the Heart - August 2007

What Are You Feeling?

What are you thinking right now?
What you are thinking is making you feel the way you are. Want proof?
Think something sad.
Feel how you feel. How do you feel?

Now think something wonderful.
How do you feel now?

Think something good about your childhood.
"Feel"

Think something not so good about your childhood.
"Feel"

Think something not so good about yourself, your job, your mate ...
"Feel"

Think something good about yourself, your job, your mate ...
"Feel"

Connecting the Dots ...
Cause and Effect, You Reap What You Sow, What You Send Out Comes Back To You,
The Universal Law of Attraction, Every Action has a Equal Reaction, Like Attracts to Like ...
What you choose to think ... will either make you feel good or not so good.

You can choose how you feel just by thinking certain thoughts.
What you think mostly and feel mostly is what you are experiencing in your life.
When you think differently and feel differently, you will have a different experience than you are now.

You are very powerful, dear one ... begin watching yourself, your thoughts and your feelings
and when you find yourself feeling bad ... Think something good instead.
We all have good qualities and what we consider bad qualities.
So does everyone else. So do our jobs. So do our relationships.
Both good and bad seem to be present in everything.

The question becomes ... What do you want to "feel" and experience?
The choice is yours and yours alone. (winking)
Much Love,
Unity
Written and posted for MySpace, January 13, 2010

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Ego Was Given A Bad Rap ...

Everything is changing. We are changing. Things that we once believed are changing
and the time has come to re-evaluate everything we have come to believe.

Take a minute and say the word ego to yourself. Focus on the word ego for a while
and see how the word ego makes you “feel” inside.
When many of us hear the word ego, we go to something negative
because of what we have been told about ego.
Unfortunately much of what we were told was about an unbalanced ego.

It came to me the other day that many words are being spelled backwards these days to make new words.
So I have come up with a new word for ego. The word is oge. Oge is pronounced ooogeee
Now take another minute and see how the word oge feels to you.
Focus on the word oge for a while and see how the word oge makes you “feel” inside.
Oge sounds like someone you could be friends with, doesn’t it?

It is way past time for us to become friends with our ego because our ego is really our inner child.
It is the part of ourselves that is scared, fearful and constantly needs to be reassured.
It is the part of ourselves that we have put down and let others abuse. 
It is a part of ourselves that needs to be nurtured in many ways.
When we realize we are Love, everything changes.
When we Love ego, ego balances and everything changes.
When ego realizes It is Love, life changes in the most miraculous ways.

Well, if you’ll excuse me … me and ooogeee are going for a long needed walk.

 Written by Unity, June 2007, Counselor of the Heart
Author of "Through the Eyes of the Heart"

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"Isn't Spiritual Supposed to Be Free?" 

Exchange is one of the Laws of the Universe and it is a very important law for us to come to understand.
Sadly, many of us were brainwashed into thinking spiritual should be free. 
What became of this was, those who were truly helping others on a full time basis
suffered deeply because of it. How do I know? I was one of those healers.

We need to ask ourselves if there anything spiritual about the one giving ... going without?
What is spiritual about the ones helping others spiritually,
such as our healers, teachers, mentors and counselors going without?
Do they not also have a physical body and physical needs just like we do?
Do they not also have to put food on their tables and buy clothes
and other essentials after helping others?
Do we not pay our plumbers, electricians
and donate in the baskets passed around in our places of worship?
Is it Loving to receive something spiritual
and not give something back of equal value for the time shared?

The Universal Law of Exchange has been one of the toughest things for me to accept in my life,
 for I too believed everything spiritual was to be given freely and for free.
But I know now in my heart because of my life experience,
the law of exchange is truly Divine, it is Love Itself.
For you see, I gave freely to others for over thirty years,
I felt a calling in my heart to share what I knew.
I spent countless hours helping others in every way I could.
I received so many thank you's and hugs during that time and they were very precious to me,
but to be honest, those hugs and thank you's did not help me put food on my table.
Those wonderful ways of thanking me didn't help me meet my physical needs, nor did they
give me that precious commodity called ‘time’ back, so I could get all the chores waiting for me done.
I went without while helping thousands. I believed something without thinking about it with my heart.


If we do not come to understand this beautiful law, there will be no healers and helpers left,
for many of them have already gone down helping countless others without being helped back.

Many of our healers and spiritual helpers have gone without
because of their Loving choice to be of service to us.
We need to be responsible and recognize that if we have received something of value from another ...
we need to give something worthy back. The more loving we become,
the more we will understand the importance of this law called exchange.

When an exchange is given ... it signifies the time shared by another had honor and worth.
The receiver realizes the giver could have been doing something for themselves during that time.
Sadly, many of our gifted healers who have not been compensated for their time with us
are no longer here for us ... because they have had to go back to working regular jobs
in order to make the money needed for their physical needs.
Needs that they have let go for a very long time.

Exchange shows we understand the importance of returning something of value
for the time shared with us.
Exchange shows we realize their time is important,
that they need to pay for food, clothing and shelter too.
It is the realization that a thank you or a hug in return, just isn't a real or fair payback.

Without receiving an exchange
whether the exchange is money or time itself helping them to get things done,
our healers and those that help others on a regular basis, go down.
Their load becomes to heavy because as they continually help others,
they still have to accomplish all the things they need done in their own lives.
Acknowledging and helping them back in some way ... is not only honorable, it is Divine.
bb
Unity 2006 - Author of ,"Through the Eyes of the Heart".

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A Different View on Letting Go ...
and Releasing the Negative Things Within Us.


We are going to explore what many have been telling us about the negative things within us.
Many teachings suggest we need to let go, clear or release the negative things within us
before we can feel better or advance in our physical expressions here on earth.

Hang on for this may push some buttons at first ...
as anything does when it disrupts something we have become comfortable with.
This different thought pattern or consciousness may challenge those of us
who have been involved in clearing these negative parts of ourselves us up to now.

Take the time to see "how you personally feel" about a different explanation.
The time has come for us to question many of the things we have been told and were taught in the past.
For deep inside
we know so much more than many of us give ourselves credit for.

Have we ever thought that getting rid of something is separating from it?
Would Love separate or bring together?
Divine Unconditional Love and this the grandest Love and It does not separate anything, ever.
Perhaps it is time to take a closer look at these ideas of getting rid of things more closely.


There is a precious gift in understanding "what these negative things remind us of".
So before we hurry to remove, clear, or release anything from ourselves ...
it may be wise to make sure we haven't missed what they actually help us with.
Once we understand from the heart of Divine Love ...
we just may decide not to get rid of anything.

Perhaps letting the negative things "be" would be a wiser choice on our part ...
rather than letting them go. For what we hold and are trying to release ...
is a realization about ourselves.


In a Divine Love Consciousness honoring the Universal Law of Love
it becomes hard to believe we are to let anything go
or that there could be anything we are to separate ourselves from.
 The negative situations we hold within "remind us of our repetitive patterns".
There is really nothing to release.

And if we hold a Loving Consciousness when these negative patterns rise within us ...
all we need to do is look at them as an old friend,
as a "reminder of the patterns" we constantly repeat, and then choose otherwise, choose grander!

If we release our negative experiences, if we let them go ...
if we sent them somewhere where they can't come back to us,
we will not have that "internal mechanism to remind us of what we usually do" ...
nor will we gain the understanding of how to make a better choice
by choosing the opposite the next time this wisdom surfaces within us.

The beauty in it all is ...
we can easily define Who We Are and who we would like to be from this point on,
after having and seeing an experience of who we did not like to be.

So as far as releasing or letting go anything ... it is just another form of separation.
This crucial piece of information may be a very important part us that holds the key
of showing us the way to Who We Really Are and wish to Be.


If we stay in the moment, the now, and hold a Loving Consciousness in our hearts and minds
 we will know exactly what to do every time one of these little reminders rises in us ...
we will make a wiser choice every time, without getting rid of anything.

Separation at any level is not God /Divine Unconditional Love.
This Beautiful Love does not separate any part of Itself ... only we do.
By Unity - February 2002 - Revised January 2007

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Self Empowerment ... Transformation ... Divine Love ... Higher Consicousness

The Final Frontier!
July 2002

Remember the story of Atlantis?
Well whether you believe it really existed or if you feel it was just an imaginary story ...
there was very much information given to us in that story
and a very important message contained within it.

I have a comparison using this story
that may help us understand what may be going on with many of us.
 It may be something very important for us to come to know and understand about ourselves.


In the story ...

In the beginning everything was shared.
One day some of the people of Atlantis discovered something new, it was something to keep one young  ...
and after finding it they began to think very differently about themselves and others.
They began to think there was not enough for every one.
They fell pray to fear based thinking and worrying only about their selves. 
Many held the fear that there was not enough for everyone.
Before this event, they trusted there was enough for all
and they included every person in everything that was.
Atlantis was a grand place in which to live.


This fear brought out many experiences of "us against them".
It brought about dishonorable experiences of separation ... separation from one another.
This fear brought out many negative feelings of "they were not enough or they didn't have enough".
This insecure and unloving thought pattern shook even the most enlightened.
Many no longer honored the highest good for all and the harm of none.
 They lost the beautiful trusting Love they once held in their hearts.

It was the fear that brought Atlantis down.
The fear of not having enough or the fear that they were not enough in some way.

Many people on Mother Earth are going through very similar experiences.
And this fear is exactly what has been bringing many of us down as well.
This fear is the problem in every life situation we have been having trouble in.
Many of us do not think we are enough or we think there is not enough for all of us.


Some experiences of this fear are rising from our past, other fears are about our future.
These thoughts of fear are taking us though very difficult life experiences
 in order to help us walk through what we could not walk through honorably in Atlantis.
Challenges are rising within us to help us open to our Divinity.
Separation is not Love, it never was, dear one.
We are being given a choice to choose the Ultimate Love that lives within us
and we are being Divinely lead to come together again ...
trusting that we are enough and there is enough for everyone.


This is why this is called "The Final Frontier".
This is the last thing we need to overcome as a people and as individuals.
It is the last thing we have to walk through to experience heaven on earth.
For it is this fear that has held us back from feeling God and feeling good.
Divine Love brings inner peace ... happiness ...transformation ...
and the world we have all been waiting to experience.

As each of us realizes we are enough and there has always been enough ...
we will wake up and open to the Divine Love and grandeur that has been awaiting us.

We will never repeat what happened in Atlantis every again.
Earth will become a place to experience True Love for Divine Consciousness will transform it ...
 and all will return only allowing what is the highest good for all and the harm of none.

Go to any situation in your life that has ever upset you and look deep within yourself at the issues,
whether the situation is from the present, the past or in the future to come. 
Honestly explore and see if you would have "felt the same about this situation" ...
if you had held the Loving thought pattern that you were enough and there was enough for us all.
Big questions ... amazing realizations.

We are going though the history of our biology of not having enough or not being enough.
Some of us, especially the teachers are getting hit the hardest in these experiences
because the teachers go though it on every level
so they can assist those who appear on their path asking for understanding.
You are strong, dear one, know you can do it.
 Know you have acquired the wisdom, the knowledge and strength to see it though
and overcome it all ... just ask what Love would do and follow your heart.

For this Our Final Frontier!

An exercise to help in our understanding ...
Let's say we are really mad at someone for not paying us back.
Now begin telling yourself you have more than enough money to meet all your needs.
Begin to see all the things money has bought for you up to now ...
and name all the beautiful things you have in your life because of what money has bought for you.

Now ... re-think this situation and see "how you feel" about the money he or she owes you.
Are you as angry as you were before at the other person for not paying you back? 
Do you feel the same as you did before you acknowledged you had all the money you needed?
Did your change in thought ... change the way you perceive things to be?

If we take any situation in our life and look at it with the information just shared ...
  we will begin to see things in a whole new light,  we will see the real reason we became upset.

If we thought we had enough or we were enough, it would be quite different wouldn't it?
Every negative situation in our life would be different ... it would be Loving.


A revelation through Divine Connection.

Thoughts for my upcoming articles ...

From A Being Dead Perspective: Look at your life from a being dead perspective.
Is what I am doing now what I would have picked to do from now to the end of my days?
Is this how I wanted to see me?

For caretakers, healers and those who give until they are exhausted:
Am I in the equation?  If I am not in the equation then chances are neither is my I Am Presence.
I Am includes all, including one's self.
 

Are You Running A Program?
Computers are not the only thing running programs ... many of us are too.

Reaching for the "feeling" - Wouldn't it be wonderful if ___________________?

Are you honoring Your God Spark or caving to another's?

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New - still being thought in process - wanted to share it
A State of Being by Unity

Where are you (where is your attention) when you are thinking?
Where does it feel like your are? Where is your beingness when you are thinking?
Does it feel like you are inside your mind in your head?
Almost like you aren't really a part of your body but that the focused you is in your head?

I am going to do my best to describe this for I have just experienced it and the good thing is I can keep experiencing it.
I was reading something one day and three days later I read another thing.
The two things connected.

"You need to get out of your mind. "
What I pondered was many things tell us to go within, almost nothing says to get out of something ...
for it seems like a separation to do so. Well you tell me ...
My prayer for you is that you experience what I experienced or that you experience something even better!

As I think about things I find myself in my mind.
It feels like I cannot get out or away from what I am thinking, it is dominant and I am confined.

Start ...
Feel where you are when you think. Feel yourself in your mind in your head as you are thinking things.
Now take your attention out of the inside space of your mind
and rest your attention on each side of your head on the outside of your mind.

Your attention is now on the outside of the ball of your mind.
It is resting on the left side and right side ... just hanging out let's say.
Now ... feel. How does it feel there outside your mind?
Don't try to change or regulate your thoughts ... just go to the outside of your mind and rest there.

What I experience is this ...
I feel calm.
I get very relaxed.
I feel harmony.
My consciousness seems to expand ... it goes out further and further to my sides, it begins to include everything.
I no longer feel confined.
The volume on what was going on in my mind turns down to almost no volume at all ... it doesn't matter any more.
(much like turning down the volume on a radio)
Everything around me become no more and no less important - there is an equality, a oneness.
I as myself no longer stand out alone ... I felt part of all that is around me.
There is no separation from things ...
I first experienced this at the beach ... the waves, the wind, the birds, myself just were ...
there was no division and nothing made more noise than something else.

I was no longer confined in my head.
I was part of the All ... with all resources available to me.
I got out of my mind and I entered All that is outside it.

I have written this very quickly ... just so you could have it.  Perhaps some day I will improve on what it says.
But with all my heart I hope it takes you where it takes me or that it takes you into something even better.
The best thing is ... I can do it in a instant and be at peace in harmony during turmoil
with what seems to be everything I could use available to me.

With much Love, Unity
Written 4-10-11

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The Body - The Beam - A Piece (The Peace) of God
This Article is still being worked on ...

Below is a story to help us in our understanding of what is about to be shared ...
 it is given to take us into a place of seeing things differently, of having a broader perspective and of using our minds to feel a bigger picture.

The Story ...
There was a unicorn who was born among horses.
And even though she had a unique horn and wings for flying ...
she was told since the day she was born - that she was a horse and that her name was Silver.

Silver was given a birth certificate with her name clearly printed on it,
and she was told about her family history and the long line of horses she had come from.
She was informed of her families strengths and of their weaknesses.

Silver lived a long life as a horse, and when she died - she died as a horse.

The sad thing was Silver wasn't a horse at all  ...
but she bought into the story that she was a horse, and therefore thought she was indeed nothing but a horse.
She had whole-heartily believed what she was told by the other horses.
And because Silver never questioned what they had told her or questioned what she thought ...
she never got the chance to experience who she really was - an amazing being that could fly and was very majestic indeed.

And dear ones, I believe we bought into many stories very much like Silver did.
You and I were given a name, a birth certificate, a family history and that is who we think we are ,but we aren't ... not really.
And because we believe that we are someone we are not, we are not experiencing a being that is very majestic indeed.
And if you are aware of who you are ... but you now find yourself questioning the
way or path to take ...  
perhaps this little treasure may gift you with a shorter route to what you seek.

The information I am about to share with you is from a different perspective.
Now it is important to note that all paths will get you to what's on the other side of the mountain - this is just a different way.

Let's say our goal is to get around the mountain.
Up until now the path traveled most around the mountain has been to the left ... (thinking the body is separate from Spirit).
but today we are going to make a new path around the mountain on the right ... (thinking the Body Is Spirit).
And as we begin our journey in the opposite direction ... maybe, just maybe ...
we will be gifted with a short-cut right through the mountain itself.

 
I am smiling for I wasn't sure on how to write this as so much is coming to me on this,
so I am just going to type this out ... the rest is up to you.

Each one of us has a certain definition for the words we use which may be different from what another's definition is ...
 and that is where most of our communication problems come from.

Hopefully, this message will come through clearly if you will allow yourself to think with your heart  ...
for words are not always easy to find when one wants to explain something deep/profound to folks with different understandings.

So many could benefit with a quicker path, an easier way to "get there" ... even though there is really (no-where) (now-here) to get.
Many of us on the spiritual path have been perfecting/correcting, mind, thought, consciousness, vibration, energy
(depending on the word you would use to define things)
and its been quite a journey and at times it seems there is still a long and winding road ahead of us.

I prayed/asked for another way ...
an easier understanding, a quicker route, something that could help us experience who we truly are faster.
Why?
Because there are people, lets take the hungry people in Africa, that would benefit greatly by being able to manifest food now.
Let's say they are asking for a way ... they would like to know the path on how to achieve this?
How could we possibly explain all this spiritual awakening/practice/unfolding to them so they can manifest food now?
Do you know anyone that can manifest food instantly?
 Long practices of being positive and correcting thoughts of sabotage seems very unlikely to help them fast ...
do you agree?

Here is just a part of the prayer answer/solution/Knowing I received ...

We do not need to get somewhere spiritually or learn anything spiritually. Our spirit already Knows everything.
Those of us who have been on the spiritual journey for quite some time could have in-depth conversations with ourselves.
We Know ... we simply, in our journey, are not always applying what we Know when certain conditions arise.

We have been trying to raise ourselves up through/in spirit/in consciousness/in our actions to "get there".
Get where? Where we can have it all of course (heaven on earth) - where we are it all (Christ consciousness in form).
But what if it isn't our spirit that needs to be raised/lifted/recognized?  What if we've been going around the mountain the long way?
What if we've been taking the path that is traveled most - the path that goes around the mountain on the left?

Now before we make a new path around the mountain on the right ... let's prove to ourselves that our spirit/our consciousness/we Know.
Let's begin by asking ourselves this simple question: "What would Love do now?"
Then let us continue by asking ourselves a series of questions afterward ...
"Would Love find the good in a situation or the not so good?
"Would Love include myself or leave me out?"
"Would Love find the good in someone else or their not so good?"
"Would Love separate us from one another or unite us?
Is not God/All That Is/Source the grandest Love of all?
 Our Spirit Knows the answers - We KNOW.

Even the children know the answers when you ask them "What would Love do now?"
Would Love include that little boy over there or tell him he can't play with you?
Would Love be kind or mean? Go ahead ask your children these questions of Love,
you will find the children answer correctly every time ...
Why? Because they Know. LOVE Knows.
The LOVE in them Knows.
The LOVE in us Knows.
So for the sake of Love ... let's say we Know.
The Spirit in us Knows.

So what has been missing? What is it we need to "get/accept/acknowledge"?

 
A new perspective knocks at our door ...
Will we add to the knowledge of how we see/perceive the body and experience our body as What It Truly Is ...
or die in the same way Silver the Unicorn did never enjoying the experience of flight?

What we need to get/understand/acknowledge has to do with our Bodies - not our spirit.
It is our BODY that doesn't know/recognize who it is.

Why?

If you look through our history or your own history since you've been on Earth in that body ...
take an honest look at what we/you have been told about it and what we/you have been telling your body on a daily basis
because of what we/you have been told about it. (including spiritually) Is separation there?

Look at what we (Silver the Unicorn) have bought into ...
We have been telling our bodies stories that it is vulnerable/human/separated from spirit and that it is dust.
 That it is subject to our heredity, to illnesses, that it ages, it dies and that it is less or not enough in many ways.
We have led our body to believe it is just a body, all alone and defenseless
and that Spirit dwells within it but it (the body) is not Spirit.

We have brainwashed our bodies.

And the sad thing is our Spirit came with the intent for Its Body, (which is Spirit also) to accompany it.
For when the body remembers/is convinced/is reminded/acknowledges Who It Is ... everything becomes available
and the riches of heaven and all the wonders It has to offer becomes available.
Why?
Because it has been the delusions/fears we have given to the body that has been keeping us from it!
Spirit and Body are not separate - They Are One. They Are Love. They are Magnificent. They Are God.

Here is the Understanding/Knowledge/Wisdom ...

If you look at every fear you have - it is a fear of the body, a fear the body holds by itself.
It is not a fear of your spirit.
Your body thinks it is vulnerable.
Your spirit knows everything always works out, it knows but your body doesn't know that.
Your body thinks it is small, not enough and alone.
The body thinks it has to deal with whatever it is, whatever is happening or could happen itself - without any help or majesty involved.
It thinks/believes that the solutions/answers lie outside or somewhere within itself
but that it is not a majestic body in and of itself with the answers/solutions.
It looks like/feels like we have given the body self-esteem issues - doesn't it?
We could say in our unknowingness we have taken away the bodies self-esteem, we have sabotaged our body.

 You see, the minute we experience something other than what we want ... we fall prey to what is wrong instead of finding what is right.
The body has been told of everything but of its grandeur and that is what we have been experiencing ...
much like Silver, the Unicorn, who thought she was a horse.
and therefore the Body hasn't been opened/allowed/known how to express Its grandeur
a
nd that is why we haven't experienced the perfection of the Body.

Ahhh, but we can remove/delete the pictures we have given the body of vulnerability, unworthiness and of being alone ...
(which are not true) and we can replace/re-install/acknowledge new pictures of the body - majestic ones.

 The body is magnificent. The body is divine. The body is the Temple of God. The body IS SPIRIT.
The body is a God-Body, a Spirit-Body, a Human-God-Body but it doesn't know that.

Our body is holding many pictures that are not true, it has stored many pictures that are incorrect -
instead of the pictures it was meant to hold of Truth.
When the cells divide they pass on the pictures we have convinced the body of, that are not true.
We are holding pictures of everything but truth and we are experiencing it.
What is Truth?
Beauty, Youth, Purity, Perfection, Wellness, Unity, Wholeness, One. What else could God/Spirit body Be?

If all there is ... Is God /Spirit/Source/All That Is - then you can bet the Body is That too.
And those are the pictures that what would be wise to pass on to our dividing cells ... all new pictures - grand pictures.

. Our un-aware self has hidden from itself our body's true identity and brain washed it.
And because when we are unaware we are still brain washed we continually cut the body down and tell it it is not enough ...
until there seems to be no or very little grandness to be found easily.
We have told it it is only human, spirit is more, we have told it it is vulnerable, subject to sickness,
subject to death and many other horrible things that are not true.
We have taken our grand form and we have beaten it down instead of raising it and re-educating it into its grandness.
We were told something less, we bought into something less and we are experiencing the consequences of something less.

Now here is the shortcut through the mountain ...
Our bodies are the doorway to it all, to the reserves, to the treasures and all the gifts of God/Source that await us.
It has been our bodies holding us back and keeping us from the bounty - not our spirits.
What is missing, what needs to come into the KNOWING is our body.
Once our body knows it is a spirit body as well as a human body all the fears it has, disappear. Our life changes immediately.
All our trauma disappears. All the roads we would usually take are no longer necessary and new and better roads open.
Our body no longer finds itself afraid of this or that, all those paths end. It knows it can re-balance itself immediately.
It knows it can re-align itself immediately.  It knows it has available to it all spirit can call into existence.
It knows it is SPIRIT ALSO.

 What remains is for us to acknowledge the body and  recognize the body for what it is,
it is about us holding the perfection of the body with continual self talk/thought ...
for when we do our Body will complete us and bring about our grandeur in form.
It is then that spirit walks in Form and every door is opened.

Now may be time to begin some serious self talk ... self-body-Love.
Now may be the time to tell the body the truth and make sure it knows What It Truly Is.
Delete the illusionary pictures you have the body holding and re-install a program that holds pictures of Its grandness.
"I AM" (declaration of Self)     "A Perfect God Body" (formed desired)     "I AM"  (cry of victory)
Its time to soar, dear one, or shall we say Walk Heaven on Earth in Form.

Put on paper by Unity - 9-20-11.
Received from Spirit from a prayer which unfolded in the most synchronistic way I have experienced.
This grand understanding of Love and the body unfolded during three separate conversations
with three different people within 48 hours of saying and asking in a prayer.
Each person held vital pieces of wisdom that made what is said here possible.
Thank you from the bottom of my heart to my dear friends, Freda, Diona, and Vickie.

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