Expressions of Appreciation to Unity - Counselor of the Heart

Testimonials describing Unity, UnityLove.
My spiritual counseling and spiritual guidance is based on Divine Love
and the ability to "feel" what one is going through.

Nobody can go back and make a new beginning ...
But anyone can start today and make a new ending.

All my life it has been very difficult for me to describe the help I lend to others.
For as each person appears in my life with the difficulties that they face,
my spiritual guidance in each situation becomes personalized because it is based on
Divine Love and my ability to "feel" what he or she is feeling and going through.
For many years I did not realize how much my sharing affected each persons life.
Now I  realize there was a "common thread" in what I taught them all.
It was a deeper understanding of Love, which I now call "Through the Eyes of the Heart" ...
and it was the healing everyone needed no matter what situation they found themselves in.
It is a very vulnerable feeling to describe myself to you.
But it is a test which holds a fear that I must walk through
and it is no different from the fears that many of you must walk through as well.
I come to you with Love in my heart ... Love is what is talking to you right now in this moment.
Below there is much Love shared from the "hearts of others" to help describe what I do.
Those I have counseled seem to be able to describe what I do much better than I.
But it is important to know that it wasn't the impact I had in their lives that changed them ...
it was the impact they had on their own lives once they understood.
So what I bring to you is their words, their feelings and their Love.

UnityLove ...
Through the eyes of others.
Many call me Unity or Debbie, my given name is Debra.

Dear Debbie,
I still care a great deal about you and love you.
i think about you all the time
and remember what me and maud put you through,
and how you're one of those people in my life that i will always,
always remember and think about much.
I think you are one of those people ...
that have something that i can't begin to describe.
But it's like only a few of us have this thing. Maybe even ability.
Like if there was a line and the entire world stood on one side of it.
Only a few found their way to the other side ...
and i think you're one of them ...
I've been meditating on what i am trying to say
and i've come to the conclusion that
the very few of us who cross this line have a light around us.
only the ones on the other side have this light.
all the people that haven't crossed yet have no light,
and no idea what is going on
and do not comprehend the crossing of the line,
or anything of the sort
They simply don't get it, and in some cases don't want to.
They are just not ready to face themselves and need more time.
Only the ones with the light can see others with the light.
That's why some people just stand out in my mind ...
in a completely indescribable way,
as you do.
Like we both know this amazing secret that can't be explained,
or described, but we both know it's there and that it is amazing.
Love Anne

Hello Debbie,
I want to thank you for always being there to listen to me.
You really made me open my eyes to many things.
Sunday I was like on a Spiritual high I did not want to eat or sleep
I was so happy it was weird,
I never felt that way before. It was a wonderful feeling!
I do not have to be afraid anymore.
Lately I have been feeling weird though,
I don't know if it is cause I am sick but it is like I am numb to many things.
I am beginning to see things clearly and I would like to thank you from my heart.
I am so thankful I met you because you have helped me more then anyone I know.
Well thanks a million debbie. I love you!
Becca

Hi,
Personally, I regard what you do as a kind of facilitation,
you sense what might be needed to shed some light on a situation,
respond to it at a deeper, wiser, spiritual level,
and then you intuitively seem to know either what to say or suggest
or send (via e-mail) that may be of assistance.
I see it as an awareness and higher consciousness ...
and all I can say is keep doing it!
You have no idea what impact you have on people ...
and because you seem to come from a genuine place ...
of wanting to assist people,
it works ...
there is no arrogance or assumption that you know the answers for others,
you help them look to their own source of self wisdom.
And regarding encouragement,
whenever I have communicated with you in chat or by e-mail ...
and via the pieces you send ...
I always get a sense of being encouraged to look further ...
look within for the wisdom ...
trust in the larger energy at work
that often occurs mysteriously and synchronistically.
as long as I believe and trust in it ... which I do!
Britwillow

DEBBIE,
YOU HAVE BEEN MY STRENGTH.
YOU GIVE WITHOUT TAKING.
NEVER ASKING FOR ANYTHING IN RETURN.
YOU FIX WHAT YOU CAN
AND STUDY HARD TO FIND THE ANSWERS OF THINGS YOU CAN'T.
YOU LOVE UNCONDITIONALLY.
YOU LISTEN
EVEN THOUGH IT WOULD BE EASIER TO SPEAK.
I WOULD DESCRIBE YOU AS A HEALER.
YOU DRY THE TEARS, MEND BROKEN HEARTS,
BUILD SELF ESTEEM,
STRENGTHEN CHARACTER,
AND ALL WITH A SMILE AND KIND WORDS.
MAYBE YOUR WEBSITE SHOULD BE CALLED
THE "TOTEM POLE TO UNITY"
EACH SECTION OF THE POLE A NEW STEP CLOSER TO GOD.
A NEVER ENDING CLIMB TO ETERNITY.
AND ALL THIS ACCOMPLISHED WITH THE POWER OF LOVE OF GOD
AND LOVE OF NEIGHBOR.
DONNA

Evy says:
The very first time I went into your room, I was looking for happiness ...
I wanted to laugh like I used to laugh ...
that hearty laugh where you get a pain in your side.
I had forgotten about that, and somehow moved on to patience.
My point is I have been laughing a lot.
Good, sincere, genuine laughs ...
the 'pain in the side ... and peeing your pants laugh',
ever since I have been in touch with you ...
my face is no longer frowning and I am happy with laughter.
That is what I wanted in the first place,
and now that I have it back ...
I never want to lose it again my friend.
I can find humor now again, and I love it!!!!
Have I told you lately that I love you ...
for what you have done for me and others around you?
No, I haven't, so I am saying now ...
"I love you for the help and guidance
you continue to give to me and others."
It is nice to know I have a friend, one that teaches,
one that loves me for me,
one that loves others for who they are,
one that sees the light,
one that will never leave my heart,
one that has made an impression
(more like a footprint) in the soul ... ty debbie.
Love Evy

  Dear Unity,
You know there is so much unity you have helped me with.
I remember that first day I came into your room
I was so upset and very down.
You Listened, that was the first thing you did.
That was very important to me unity.
You gave me self esteem
by telling me to make a list about all the good things about myself.
You told me to go outside and just sit
and come in and write down everything I felt while sitting outside.
I did try to kill myself once and I was thinking of doing it again.
I was on meds and seeing a doctor.
I was a complete mess. I could not get myself out of this hole I was in.
Unity you brought me out slowly.
I went to your room almost every day.
You kept talking to me. You sent positive energy to me.
I could see another me. That I was someone.
How to feel good about myself.
How to love myself and give that love to others.
You gave me the power to go on.
Unity you told me that there are people watching over me -
My angels, my God .
That there are people that are up there that are with us.
There were times I could not get out of bed
or I could not think straight at all.
You my dear made me realize that there is a lot worse out there.
People with no legs, no arms, and they still go on.
You inspired me to look at myself
and to be happy and appreciate what I have.
You taught me to be Thankful for everything I have
and not to want for anything.
To live in the moment,
I still have trouble with that.
I am always looking in to the future ... lol.
You encouraged me to what I could potentially be.
Since I have found myself through you I go out and teach others.
There are so many things unity you taught me.
I can go on and on but unity
the only thing that stands out in my mind is your love.
The love you give to me and many others.
Tonight when I came into your room I felt the love.
I laughed when you said dance like no one is watching you.
You have been there in my darkness moments.
Yesterday when I talked to you, and you told me to tie up my hands
and see what I really have. I thought you were crazy.
When I did get off the computer,
I did not move my hands and pretended for awhile
that I could not use my hands.
All these things did come into my mind.
There is a lot I should be thankfully for.
Just Keep Up the Good Work, Unity ... you are a very understanding.
One day my life will see all the good things you say and do.
Good will always come to you, I love you very much unity.
I will always feel that spirit love for you.
Keep being who you are unity.
You don't realize what a great person you are
and I truly mean it from my heart ...
Many a day, I received Email from people,
Thanking me for your inspirational e-mails ... they are great.
I know you have helped me so much. I love you Unity ...
and you will always be there special in my Heart and a lot of others.
Unity thank you for everything.
Love you always, Flower

Dear Unity/Debbie,
You are comforting
without allowing a person to continue feeling sorry for themselves;
You encourage people to find God in their own way
without preaching or being self-righteous or pretentious.
You enjoy a good  joke just as much as anyone else
and you show us that God has a sense of humor too.
Love, Greenmachine

Debbie,
Thank you so much.
I get so involved in the worldly things sometimes
that I forget what is available to me.
And I really need to work on re-training my line of thinking.
You are just a great gift to me.
I need to talk to you more often.
I want you to know how I feel about you.
You uplift me, you show me another way to look at issues.
You are very in tune with nature and people around you.
You have a bubbly personality that I enjoy.
You are very spiritual and it not only shows but you can feel it.
I'm so glad you came into my life.
Love Gwen

To UnityLove, a poem for you.
I take your words like rain dropping on a parched, sandy desert
I breath them in, decide what they mean and grow by every letter spoken
I discover so much every time we speak I can hardly recognize myself
You've shown me so much of everything I thank you everyday.
Love, Jennie

Unity,
First off I'm a guy. Average if there is such a thing.
Was browsing the chats one night when i saw this one and popped in.
My first trepidation came when I saw the host name, UnityLove.
Then I saw other weird names like peaceful dove, radiant rainbow, flower of life
and thought I was back in the sixties
or in one of those groups that walks the streets
wearing white robes and smiling their irritating smiles at people
while asking us if we have been saved.
Then there was the way they talked ...
sending peace and love and flowers and la de da to each other.
I stuck there about 5 minutes for a good laugh.
Well the reason I needed a laugh was because
I was fighting a bad case of depression.
Thought I should snap out of it. The Guy Thing.
Well it had gotten bad enough that i'd actually told my doctor
and was on meds that only helped a little. Had even seen a shrink once.
She basically said snap out of it.
Well a few nights later I went back to Are U Happy
and no one else was there and tried to argue with unity a while ...
but she got going on her spiel.
Well guess what. It works.
I ain't about to start talking like she and some of her followers,
and would never deliver the message the way she does
but what she says makes sense.
A plain, simple way of delivering the message ...
in all those self-help books we never read.
Just think before acting in all the decisions in your life
and pick the one that makes you feel good afterwards.
I haven't turned into a polyanna and i am not afraid of sorrow.
I do get up in the morning and not regret having to go to work,
I am able to communicate with my wife and friends,
and am trying new things.
I recognize the feelings that bring on depression
and am able to use unity's message in my own way.
Thank you unity,
jjustajjohn

Dear Debbie,
You are a very good listener,
with some very good advice on many, many subjects like life and health.
Love Joleen

Debbie
I first met you on line with the power of thought chat room.
Ooh the power of thought ... you made it so clear and simple!
If you think positive thoughts long enough
only positive things will happen.
You are in touch with people's feelings.
You can get a handle on where their thoughts are!
You have reached my soul ...
when it seemed like no one could possibly understand.
You've been blessed with a gift of understanding
and can send out that gift through these computers.
You have the knowledge of herbal healings
and Native American beliefs ... (all to our benefits)
and above all the power of God that is in all of us if we just look!
all my blessings.
Karen

debbie, my dear friend
First and foremost I felt a freedom of choice with u,
u see, the things u say make so much sense.
I didn't feel any pressure in believing the words u said,
because they all just made sense.
Most religions tend to leave people feeling inadequate,
because along with the rewards one can achieve
(for good behavior and loyal service etc.)
there is always the pitfalls, like
("if u don't do this, u wont get into heaven,
and god will despise you", etc.)
But with the many learning experiences I have had with u debbie,
all was love and there was no room for the other
(bad, evil etc.)
How refreshing this is,
and its like one can cleanse their Soul
and defeat the guilt that good people carry around with them,
and I believe it is the guilt that causes many ...
if not most ailments of illnesses.
Oh yes and of course lets not forget heaps of trust
and utter honesty (from u that is).
love u from katrina

DEAR UNITY ,
YOU HELP OTHERS BY LENDING A LOVING EAR TO THE HEART-FELT
AND HURTFUL THINGS THAT ARE INTERFERING
WITH ONE'S ABILITY TO LET THEIR INNER LIGHT SHINE THROUGH.
AND YOU OFFER UP EXPERIENCES
THAT HAVE HELPED YOU
AND OTHERS YOU HAVE SHARED WITH.
FOR ME PERSONALLY ...
YOUR UNSELFISH GIVING OF YOUR LOVE, LIGHT, AND TIME ...
IT GIVES ME BACK A LITTLE FAITH IN OUR HUMANITY,
WHERE WE ARE HERE IN THIS PLACE AND TIME TOGETHER
TO HELP ONE ANOTHER IN ALL THINGS ...
FOR I ONLY SAY THESE THINGS
OUT OF LOVE AND RESPECT FOR YOUR "WORK."
OK THAT'S ENOUGH OF ME BEING IN TOUCH
WITH MY FEMININE SIDE ...
HAHAHA ... PEACE KRASH

Good Morning!
I wanted to say thank you again
 for that beautiful meditation last night in the room.
I slept like a baby, never woke up once like i usually do!
Went to bed feeling sooooo relaxed.
Love ya, Patty

Unity ....
I think you are a Beautiful, wise lady. Who cares so much about the world.,
You help people the best you can.
You are a sister to me ... a sister I never met, just talked to.
You help people become wiser, smarter in their choices.
You tell people that they can listen and learn
or they don't have to learn but they can listen,
or which ever they want .. .
but you say all is choice.
You bring people to their higher selves.
You guide some of us through difficult times in life.
You are a healer.
You are a Wonderful Soul!
Love Rasp

Hi Love Unity,
I want you to know from the bottom of my heart
how much you have helped me
and helped me to direct my steps into the life
I've know all along that was meant for me.
Thank you for being my friend through out the last few lifetimes.
I can remember the things that happened,
and sometimes wonder what could have been done different.
When we came together in this lifetime my joy was immense,
to be able to enjoy such a wonderful person as yourself again in this lifetime.
Your friendship has been more than an inspiration in my life
because you are truth and love.
Thank you my friend because of your help,
I have remembered who I am.
That is the hardest to do ... "remember".
Thank you for being there any time any place.
You stand for all that is good and the truth in the meaning of love,
stand tall my friend
 your love shines like a beacon for all to see and witness to.
You are true love in human form.
All my love, Sara R.

Hello,
What you said about the relationships really seems to make sense.
It helped me see things in a different light.
That's what you have a gift for.
You seem to have reached a mental plain in your life,
that many of us strive each and every day to achieve, true happiness.
Sometimes it seems that people have lost something,
I don't know, their substance, personality, kindness.
And they seem to model their lives
on what is popular at the moment in society.
I see it in so many young people. It's scary.
That's why the world needs people like yourself.
To point out the good things that can be or still remain,
just hidden from our miserable lives.
I don't know you personally,
but you seem like the warmest, most peaceful person
I've ever come into contact with.
I wish very much that my mother was still alive.
She had a light inside her that shone for miles around.
You have that same light.
It shines through this computer. Keep it up,
Bless you Tonya

Debbie
I want you to know that you helped me a lot last night with your words.
Everyday for the last few months
i woke up and did not want to get out of bed.
Wondering ... hoping that there is something out there for me.
But not knowing how to find it.
I was expecting the answer to fall on my lap, and it never did.
Therefore, I let myself get caught in the tangled web of "mankinds beliefs".
Doing what everyone expected me to do.
What was right and what was wrong.
It didn't matter to me what "I" wanted ...
just so I fit the perfect scenario of what the world wanted of me.
Then today, I woke up with a new abundance of energy.
I made my mind up that it was time.
Time to stop grieving over the things I couldn't change in my life.
Time to except the fact that god has a plan for me.
But only I could make it all happen.
I'm not saying that I will find the answers today;
but I have started somewhere ...
and that was within myself. Because, god is in us.
so to start with ourselves ... we are starting with God.
And what better way to start??!!
debbie...please let people know ...
that if they think that they are all alone in a world of hatred,
divorce, alcoholism, drugs, violence, abuse, etc ... they are not.
We as a "whole" have been given a chance by God himself,
to show what we are.
And I hope that the next time I get down and think that I am nothing ...
that I remember what lives inside of me ...
the most wonderful gift of all ...GOD
Love to you ...
THANK YOU for taking your precious time with me debbie ...
to help me to understand a little better.
And YES! I do want to soar as high as you can take me, every day.
I want to learn something new about this mass thing we call life,
because then I will no longer be in ignorance.
You made me feel so ... good last night ...
when you told me ... you really think I have come far?
Well guess what? so do I!!
I am stepping into my happiness, wholeness,
the TRUE meaning of LOVE,
and that lies within my own heart.
I thank you debra ... with all my heart and love and soul.
No one will ever know what a difference you have made in my life ...
but i do and that's all that matters.
And debbie, you wrote this, your lover within???!!!
It's wonderful!!!!!  You have yet seized to amaze me.
Just when I think I know you ...
 you surprise me with something like this! ha ha.
Do not be scared to show all your great talent debbie,
for it is people like you; and your words,
that make this world what it is ...
no words can say what needs to be said.
Just know that you are a part of my life now ...
whether I ever see your face ...
You always say that GOD is LOVE ...
and that LOVE is in our HEARTS.
Well, to me ... your heart,
and the way you devote your time and LOVE ...
in some ways make you my GOD... don't laugh woman!
it is how i feel.
i thank you from the bottom of my soul and being.
The day you walked into my life, is the day the heavens opened ...
i love you debbie ... more than you'll ever know :) ...
may god bless you and yours
and forever keep you safe in the folds of his arms.
with all my love ...
traci sue (and grace)

I hope this has helped to give you a feeling about me, dear one.
I am very honest and say "only ask if you truly want to know" for I will never hide the truth from you.

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